ok my mom and my dad are not divorced yet but they are separated for more than a year already and my dad was supposedly cheating on my mom with this woman she once called me because she wanted to talk with my mom and she was very rude that was very little after my parents separated then i went to christmas vacation to my grandma and uncle house with my mom and my dad went to spend christmas with us and my mom got pregnant so when my mom found out we went to my grandmas house so we could all take care of my mom and my little brother after he was born we came back to our house which is in another place very far and my dad acted weird he knew a lot about baby stuff and he told us not to call his home because he dindt have a home number anymore he told us to call his cell but a week later after we came back and a little girl answered the phone my mom ask to talk with my dad and she asked my dad if he was living with this woman and he said yes and that they had a daughter which wasnt this
2006-07-21 17:54:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
the girl who answered the phone that was her ''stepdaughter'' i was shocked and really mad at my dad and he came to my moms house that ninght to apologize then when he left i called his house again and i had a fight with the woman and she was very disrespectful and i was too but i forgive him after some weeks and went back to live to the house we lived when my parents were together because the person who was renting it didnt want it anymore, we were living in my moms apartment back then and she started calling us and insulting my mom and of course my mom got mad and insulted her too well then my dad said that my little brother wasnt his and once again i got really mad at my dad for saying that well time passes and i forgave my dad once again but then we just had minor fights because he sometimes say stuff about my mom and brother that i didnt like cause i love my brother like a son im 17 and hes 20 months so right now he is saying he wanna divorce my mom and marry that woman and he
2006-07-21 18:01:31 · update #1
says he cant afford us to live in this house but a friend of my dad and my moms told us he wants to live in this house with that woman, his stepdaughter, his daughter, and with this womans mother and brother cause they are living with them too because they are really poor, she didnt even finish high school because she got pregnant and she want my mom my brother and i to leave cause she really hates me so i think he is with my dad because of his money this woman used to work and right now she doesnt my dad has a bmw and she doesnt let him drive it because she wants to have it all the time and she is 17 years younger than my mom i dont what to do cause i love my dad but i cant be the sweet girl i used to be i have to defend my mom and my brother because this woman dominates my dad
2006-07-21 18:08:08 · update #2
i dont know my stepsister and she is just 2 months older than my brother
2006-07-21 18:09:14 · update #3
sorry she is 17 years younger than my dad or something like that she is like 26 my mom is like 35 and my dad is 42
2006-07-21 18:12:00 · update #4
my dads realationship with me has changed a lot
2006-07-21 18:13:14 · update #5
my halfsister is almos 2 years my little brother is almosr 21 months i just dont like hating but i really dont like this woman at all
2006-07-21 18:14:56 · update #6
You and your mother need family therapy, to help you get back on your feet, and adopt normal living without this deadbeat father of yours. She has two children to think of.
2006-07-21 18:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by adjoadjo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so your little bro is not your dads b/c there was a blood test done or he's just making it up? Anyway, sounds complicated. Sounds like your dad is a jerk. Help your mom out and move on from the drama. It happens a lot when the father leaves his biological children and his wife and moves in and marries another woman and becomes a father to that womans child much more than his own. IT SUCK!! keep your head strong and your morals strong. go to college, get a degree, make some money so in the long run you don't have to depend on your rents!
2006-07-22 01:11:31 · answer #2 · answered by chill'n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a strong heart with a lot of love in it. There's nothing you can do to help your mother or get your mother and father back together again.
You might try to tap your heels together, but the ruby slippers are in a museum under armed guard.
So help your mom with your baby brother and do as well as you possibly can in school. Your education is the way out of this zoo of emotional storms and uncertainty, believe me. Even if your mom doesn't appreciate it, good grades are the cure for your problems.
2006-07-22 01:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow that was a lot of information. I am not really sure what to think. Sorry for your family. Help your mom with your little brother, she gonna need it.
2006-07-22 01:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by Tyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love your mom and dad dearly, for they know not what they are doing and think you don't care. Tell them you care for them both but you hate what they are putting you through. Hang in there, this will pass and it gets better. Remember, nothing is as bad as it seems, and nothing is as good as it seems.
2006-07-22 01:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, you are handling alot hang in there and help your mom as much as you can but when it comes to your mom and dad's relationship stay out of it so you don't get stuck in the middle you can love both of them even if they don't get along anymore.
2006-07-22 01:02:20 · answer #6 · answered by osu2720@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmmhmmm... you go girl... stand tall and be proud...
2006-07-22 00:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Friendly Neighbor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋