i dont know why but it seems like i want to have sex every night but my fiance is 36 and he would like to do it every 3 nights he is driving me crazy.......what can i do????
2006-07-21 17:45:29 · 17 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ummm workout and invest in a vibrator.
2006-07-21 17:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by Cable guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different people naturally have different sexual desires. I think considering that you want sex every night and he has it penciled in for every third night, you need to examine your relationship.
I don't think that your sex life should be something that you have on the calendar. If there is a time when it was more spontaneous, what has changed?
The most important thing to remember about relationships, particularly sexual relationships, is to communicate. Talk to him about it. If you guys could "loosen" up on the when and maybe change some of the where and how.......you might both find some new sources of excitement.
Good luck and many happy orgasms!
2006-07-21 17:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by Robert C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people in relationships are not in sync with their sex drives or libido. And it comes and goes, generally. Some time in the future, your drive may not be as strong as it is now -- a funny thing happens to some women when they marry!! or have children.
It is certainly something to discuss with your fiance, but analyze this urgent need you have and make sure that your libido is true desire and not something else -- like insecurity.
2006-07-21 17:50:10 · answer #3 · answered by DD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to embrace masterbation lol i have a husband with a lower sex drive then myself.. but when you love someone it's still a good marriage... Because on the times he is in the mood it's more then any stranger or toy could do for me... Good Luck
2006-07-21 17:48:51 · answer #4 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your guy doesnt know how lucky he is.I feel u girl,i've been there.I think it would be folly of u to marry someone whose libido is not close to yours.That said,every 3 nites is not so bad.Maybe u could engage selflove as a substitute when another's love is not so forth coming.
2006-07-21 17:55:54 · answer #5 · answered by Yomif 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you ain't "getting any".
You got to make him attracted to you. Funny, I have the same problem with my wife and 3 nights would be a blessing for me (3 months actually).
2006-07-21 17:48:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get something for tha vist the doc get some virga something just work it out cuz if u dont ull just be visting me the hood dick man u want dic i got u gilrs only
2006-07-21 17:50:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't have any meaning but it only shows that level of libido differs for every person, your problem is same as mine with my wife
2006-07-21 17:55:43 · answer #8 · answered by Gino M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ewww, that doesn't sound too good. Don't really think getting married is going to help that at all either.
2006-07-21 17:47:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats gunna become a problem later in the marriage.
2006-07-21 17:48:16 · answer #10 · answered by Lindsay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miss Brandy said it straight up!!!
2006-07-21 17:48:04 · answer #11 · answered by nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋