you are hallucinating, what would you do. i mean i saw him with my own true eyes and he still denies what i saw. how would you react to someone telling you that? what would you think? when you know with your heart, body and soul you know what you saw. how would you deal with a person like that?
2006-07-21 17:33:57 · 42 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WALK AWAY: He LIES so much hes confident in himself and thinks you will buy any BS he tosses your way. Do yourself a BIG favor DUMP his BSing Worthless ***. And as you Dump him tell him I'm gonna Dump you Very slowly so I'm sure you don't miss it. I wouldn't want you to think you was Hallusinating.
2006-07-21 17:38:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I remember feeling funny while I would have sex with my boyfriend. He used to come home from work and I didn't understand why he would treat me different. sometimes he wouldn't want me to touch him or he would act as if when I spoke it annoyed him. I asked was he cheating and he denied it said I was crazy and just looking for a reason to argue. His attitude was still different and I kept asking for the truth and he kept denying it. He told me I was "bugging", feeling all types of crazy s.h.i.t. then that's when I did some I spy stuff and found out that he was cheating spoke to the girl and everything. after I found out I confronted him again and asked was he cheating he said no. so then I said I will ask you one more time because I know the truth redeem yourself and confess. He then asked me if it was try then tell him her name so I said her name her age where she worked her car how many times they had sex and everything.
Men will lie as long as you don't have the proper proof but til then they will make you feel insane because I thought I was going crazy and the fact that he kept saying it to me had me feeling even worse. Believe what you saw all men in some way or another think they're magicians always wanting you to believe you didn't see or feel what you did.
2006-07-22 09:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by redserenity0804 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if what you saw was him cheating on you, then dump the guy and move on with your life.
If it was something else, like him being someplace he wasn't supposed to be etc, maybe he was doing something to surprise you. Are any holidays or special days coming up?
It all depends on what he's denying without getting specifics it's really hard to answer the question.
2006-07-21 17:37:30 · answer #3 · answered by TMH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys never admit to anything! Just like when you ask a question that they don't quite know how to answer, they buy some time by asking you a quetion (what, what did you say)? They are usually trying to think of something to say, but not the truth. Put some space between the two of you.
2006-07-21 17:41:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their are some men who will deny everything, even if they got busted red handed!! They still will deny it!! I find those people amazing, because they have no heart. They are liers and can't be trusted. If your dating this guy dump him, know one deserves to be lied to. they can't be trusted. I mean come on, you seen them with your own two eyes, your not crazy, their crazy. I know for a fact that there are guy like that in this world. I once wanted to be like that, but then I changed, but I know that back in the day, I cheated on my girl and denied everything, NEVER GOT BUSTED , but if I did I would denied, EVEN IF SHE CAUGHT ME IN BED, I would have still denied it. So my response to you leave them alone their liers, and dogs.
2006-07-21 17:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Advise = ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what he did. If he did something really bad like hitting on another girl and then denying it then I'd probably give him one more chance. If he keeps doing things and denying it, you should leave him or talked to him about it. A real boyfriend would never deny something that he really did.
2006-07-21 17:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by cool_pd_pd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing a psychological trick on you. The fact that he can't admit or comment on what you saw, he is a LIAR. Lying is the worst thing in this world (to me) and you must spend some time apart so you can decide if you really want to be with him.
2006-07-21 17:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by jimjones3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This boyfriend is a psychological master and soon you won't know up from down. You don't "deal" with a person like this, you leave him alone. You cannot beat him at this game so don't get hurt any further.
2006-07-21 17:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by DD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does it realy matter. will it make a difference to the whole world in 20, 50, or 100 years? how about a thousand years from now.
ten thousand years? no?
its simple, yes, or no... can you forgive him for it. if he promises to try not to do it anymore.
no one is perfect. so decide would you rather be with him. or is it so serious that you want to stop seeing him.
you have to talk to him about it. but before you do. know where you are going. and how youre going to get there.
i hope this helps you.
2006-07-21 17:39:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on. Don't bother to tell him why, if he is lying now who knows what is next. And if he denies something you saw and confronted him with he dose not deserve an explanation!
2006-07-21 17:37:14 · answer #10 · answered by Cloudy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋