how to get closer to a girl?

Question

i just started dating her and we hold hands but when we talk we dont say stuff like our fealing or i love you or u know but i just need to know how to adress the situation

Answer 1

don't rush.
love takes time.
If your really in love with her you'll see it sooner or later
let it come to you

Answer 2

Depends on how old you are stud-muffin. If your young it might be akward because you are both inexperienced. Remember that. Dont tell a girl you love her right away or discuss feelings if you have only known her for a week. Wait at least two months. You can get closer by saying things like, You look very pretty today. I like it when you smile. I like it when your happy. I like having you around. My family really likes you." Anything like that will make her feel better being around you and less shy. Open doors for her and make her feel special. When the time feels right say " I think your really beautiful and such a nice person.". When it feels right and you think she might feel the same say "I'm falling in love with you. Your very special and you mean alot to me." I love being with you. But make sure its real and from the heart and not just to get down her pants. Remember that men are visual and woman are visual/emotional. You have to get them to take notice with their heart. Flowers, movies, laughing, conversation, attraction, hugging, cuddling. All things that help along the way. But dont go overboard or she may think your pussywhipped which means your groveling like a dog. Dont ever grovel and remember, "woman are like buses, you can chase them but you will always be left behind." or "woman are like buses, there is one every fifteen minutes." Most important you can give some of yourself but never all of yourself because if you give all and she leaves you there is nothing left. SO remember to respect yourself and if she breaks your heart you will survive because there are plenty more out there. Hope this helps chick magnet. Good luck. And be a gentlemen.

Answer 3

Start by asking her something like what she wants to do with her life, or what kind of things she's interested in, or what she thinks are important. Once you start talking, the rest usually follows. And it's OK to tell her you're not sure how to talk about your feelings, but that you'd like to. Chances are she'd like to, too.

Answer 4

getting to know everything about her is the first part of a good relationship dude dont rush into things or it might get more complex. usually you will know when its the right moment to make a move, and from there on it just happens. just keep it smooth and find that right moment.

Answer 5

wait at least 3 months to say i love you and only if you mean it
if you feel awkward saying it, you dont love her
it has to just come out
for now just get closer to her by talking to her...about her family and stuff and call her every night and ask her how her day was
girls like taht $hit lol

Answer 6

dont worry at all,dude.....this happens in the initial few days or weeks of an affair......adress ur heart dat u really love her then feelings ll flow automatically....u take the initiative of admiring hr for what she is and believe me she'll simply luv u for it....

Answer 7

well since you just started dating you should just take it slow dont worry about it she must be into you if she is still with you so wait till she is ready or says something first

Answer 8

personaly i would sit down and just bring the problem into the open, as my mom would say be honest and straight foward, its the only way to get the answer that you are looking for

Answer 9

if u guys just started dating...makes no sense to say "i love you"...but u guys can talk abt ur feelings..and if u both want to take it up 2 the next step...its up 2 both of you...

Answer 10

Say that you enjoy spending time with her... that will open up the gates of communication.