Ok, we all know you claim you want the nice guy... but damn it... I dont see a line of women patiently waiting for my services :P Is it because nice guys are too safe? maybe a bit boring? Alright ladies... I wanna know what you think.
2006-07-21 17:26:02 · 23 answers · asked by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like the nice guys..but, unfortunately, the nice guys don't seem interested in me!
2006-07-21 17:30:52 · answer #1 · answered by Samsarin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just something about the bad boy image that attracts women. I can't really put my finger on it, but I guess women don't want the nice guy until they're ready to actually settle down for good. But during the meantime-in-between-time, they still wanna have fun with the tough guys that break hearts. Backwards, yet somehow it makes sense.
2006-07-21 17:37:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
may b u hv a misconcept bout nice or wrong guys, and bout urself too. At least u dont sound a nice one by these weird thoughts!!
one who is introvert, socially not so active, need not b very nice!!
go and talk to the girl u like, dats all!!
2006-07-21 17:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the women you are attractive to don't see you as nice but not bold enough. You said it right too safe. Too safe seems like you are afaird.
2006-07-21 17:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls don't know what they want or why. Most of them say they want a "nice guy", but it's usually the "bad boy" they fall for. I think it's some kind of genetic, evolutionary thing that no one really understands.
2006-07-21 17:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by godeep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, nice guy isn't boring at all! I'm a kinda girl who will fall in love with kindness.. Unfortunately, you and i haven't met each other.. Believe me, always be urself n suddenly 'miss right' will be in front of u!!!
2006-07-21 17:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by pelagiasong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am...tell me where you are and I'll be outside of your door as soon as I can get there. lol j/k But seriously, maybe you just haven't met the right girl. I'm sure there are alot of girls who would go for the nice guy. I know I would....
2006-07-21 17:29:48 · answer #7 · answered by Curious_Camo_Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to be nice but to really pull u must have mystery.Engage in activities that truly interest u & dont talk much.Interest attract interest.Before u know it u'll be fighting them off.
p.s.Drop the nicety!
2006-07-21 17:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by Yomif 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just want a guy to make me feel safe. I dont know why If the guy dosent, He is gone in a flash.
2006-07-21 17:32:38 · answer #9 · answered by dontknow86 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ask myself that same question all the time. I was lucky to some what get one of the nicer guys! But i see alot of my friends with jerks and i just don;t get it.
Nice guys need loven' too
2006-07-21 17:33:18 · answer #10 · answered by freebirdat2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋