I had made plans to go on a trip with my freind this summer and we will be gone for two weeks. Well the problem is that I started dating this guy who has been my best freind for along time. Now I feel bad for leaving him and I would feel bad to bail on my freind. He wont ask me to stay but I know he feels uneasy becasue of were we are going. He has to work so he can't go.
2006-07-21 16:53:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am going I just want to make him feel better. I already got the tickets and hotel and stuff, so yeah I'm going plus she is a great freind
2006-07-21 17:05:38 · update #1
Do Not break your plans with your friend. If your guy is meant to be it will happen. Besides, talking on the phone or emailing him while you are on holiday will definately make the heart grow fonder. Put him to the test, it'll be fun. Your friend will thank you too!
2006-07-21 17:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by boarshell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on the trip! If this guy loves you, he should be happy for you. The plans were already made and it would be terribly wrong to not come through for your friend.
2006-07-21 16:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by ValleyViolet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had made plans with your frined before this guy came into the picture,you need to honor the commitment you made. If this guy is worth having, he will understand and be waiting for you. It's only for two weeks, go and have fun.
2006-07-21 16:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your asking for advice,.........
I would stick to your plans with your friend. It's one of those, do as you would want done to you things.
Maybe explain to your boyfriend that he will be greatly missed by you, you will be thinking of him all the time and maybe the two of you could plan your own little vacation or outing when you return.
2006-07-21 16:57:08 · answer #4 · answered by DJgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on your trip.. To early in a relationship to alter your plans... Absence makes the heart grow fonder... Have fun
2006-07-21 16:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already made plans DO NOT bail out on your friend........The guy will be there when you get back (it's only for 2 weeks), and if he isn't there then it was enver meant to be in the first place........Enjoy your trip and you'll see him when you get home!!!!!!! Take care, honey............
2006-07-21 16:56:22 · answer #6 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since you must be ... like 14! then go.
And why would he feel uneasy?
Is it a boy you are going with?
You are not Bailing on your friend.
He may feel left out, but he will pay for you later on.
2006-07-21 16:59:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him as much as possible and when u get back frum the trip u will be so hppy to see himm trust me i did the same last week
2006-07-21 16:57:03 · answer #8 · answered by hot_blonde_2952 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE ALREADY MADE PLANS WITH YOUR FRIENDS.
YOUR BOYFRIEND SHOULD UNDERSTAND THAT, IF HE
DOESNT THEN YOU MAY HAVE A PROBLEM ON YOUR HANDS,IT NOT LIKE YOU BE GONE FOR EVERY. AND
HE HAS TO WORK SO HE CANT GO ANYWAY. SO IT SOUND
SELFISH TO ME.
2006-07-21 16:58:49 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really cared about you he'd quit his job and go with you to prove how much he loves you
2006-07-21 17:01:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋