I'm trying to throw a tasteful shower for the bride and I am having all kinds of problems with ebry other bridesmaid except one. They seem to be all very self centered and outwardly nasty to everyone. How am I going to pull this off and survive intact?
2006-07-21 16:08:05 · 11 answers · asked by irishhorsefeathers 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
remind them they're not the ones getting married, and they have a long way to go till THEIR big day comes. that ought to shut them up >:D
happy shower throwing^^
2006-07-21 16:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan the shower without them. Send them invitations, but leave them out of the planning. Do it on your own, with friends who aren't nasty. Better yet, if you're afraid they're going to spoil the shower, then leave them out of the shower. I didn't have all my bridesmaids at my shower (because of distance), so I don't think it's all that important. The important thing is to have a fun day for the bride.
2006-07-21 17:24:19 · answer #2 · answered by locolady98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't invite any of the other bridesmaids to the shower. Tell them that they are just supposed to send a gift, and let you everyone else have a good time.
2006-07-21 17:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by sarah s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the part is for the bride you may very tastefully remind them it is for the bride not them and we should all get along for the bride this is her day an no one has a right to spoil it for her so please ladies lets just get along an go with the flow you dont have to like it just accept it
2006-07-21 16:17:45 · answer #4 · answered by serenity0795 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the bride this. If she can't make them straighten up. Then those foul women will just be univited. Other than that, quit!
2006-07-21 16:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by tiger_skratch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, I've heard of bridezilla, but this!! They are obviously jealous. Let them know if they act this way, you'll be just as uncooperative with their weddings and showers.
2006-07-21 16:13:26 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plan your shower and if they don't like it tell them to throw their own, then have yours and have a good time
2006-07-21 16:20:02 · answer #7 · answered by judy j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give 'em the Trump Dump: "You're fired!"
2006-07-21 16:11:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You TELL them what you need from them and if they give you crap say you're sorry they won't be able to attend.
2006-07-22 15:35:09 · answer #9 · answered by misslabeled 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick them out the wedding ..give them warning then stick to your work. it is you day do not let anyone spoil it.
2006-07-21 16:12:35 · answer #10 · answered by not2smarttoday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋