How can you tell if a guy likes you , likes you or only see you as a friend or sister please someone give me some good answers im really need to know?
2006-07-21 16:00:59 · 45 answers · asked by Heaven <3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ill tell ya what kinda stuff he does with me he is always being playful like throwing paper at me and he is always wanting me to chill and watch movies with him , whatcha think ?
2006-07-21 16:02:22 · update #1
Does he make a lot of eye contact? Does he go out of his way to try and talk to you or start up conversations with you? When you walk into a room does he immediately look your way? Does he smile at you a lot? Does he try and touch you casually (putting an arm on your shoulder when trying to get your attention or giving you a playful yet goofy poke on the arm when telling a funny story?) Those are all good signs he's not seeing you as sisterly. ;) Look for behaviour patterns such as those to see if a guy is interested.
2006-07-21 16:03:29 · answer #1 · answered by Valerie L 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You`re not desperate. Stop freaking out and just listen to your instincts. That`s what they`re for. If you feel deep inside its more than just friends or a sister type thing then I suggest you make sure you really WANT him to like you. If you ask him out it will change you`re relanship with him forever. Probablly for the better, but if you decide in a week you don`t like him that way, you won`t be able to get the same type of friendship back. What I`m basically saying is that you should be careful what you wish for.
2006-07-21 16:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think and don't get this the wrong way you need to relax, I mean being friendly doesn't always mean wanting a romantic relationship. Enjoy the friendship for what it is a FRIENDSHIP. If you really are desperate to know then be honest with him and tell how you really feel about it. If you are too shy to say it to his face write him a letter. Either I know by the tone and your question that you are young just take it easy. Good Luck!
2006-07-21 16:06:16 · answer #3 · answered by Leididanger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very difficult to tell with some guys, especially the ones that don't wear their heart on their sleeve. Try talking to his friends. If they are clueless, then just trying flirting with him a bit, and asking him to spend time with you. If he seems happy to oblige these advances then he probably does have some feelings for you. Most the time guys don't become good friends with girls they only view as sisters or friends, a lot of times there is an underlying attraction. Do what you can to bring it to the surface. Goodluck!
2006-07-21 16:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he does like you... i have always said there are no platonic relationships between men and women... if a guy likes you, he doesn't see you as a sister, he sees you as someone he hasn't had sex with...of course this may sound vulgar, but believe me it's true on some level! all guys want options, and by options i mean they're willing to explore any proposition a woman might have... so on some level he wants to be with you, so just go ahead and make the next move... guys always respond positively to a woman making a move, trust me
ps. guys fear rejection about 100x more than any woman could conceive, so for a woman to make the move -- it's an unbelievable relief for any guy (especially ones that sound very interested like your friend)
2006-07-21 16:08:26 · answer #5 · answered by misterlyle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok this may sound crap but its true, if you often caught him looking at your chest, face or other parts of your body, or he is frequently trying to do something to catch your attention. Some guys likes to tease the girl they like but they shy type will only look at you from far. Any gifts from him, words of concern...etc. Does he call you often to chat? If yes what are the topics?
Theres no definate answer to know whether a the guy likes you, I am sure you will be able to feel it someday. Good luck!
2006-07-21 16:09:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Males are creatures that are unexplainable. What works for me is this eyes and smile thing. I'll try to describe it... Okay your talking and he says some that is funny (or at least suppose to be humorous) look at him right in his eyes and give a flirty smile (crooked or biting your lip). If he gives you this shy smile back, you got him. If he looks at you real weird or pushes you by the head, he's your friend. Usually works for me. You may want to come up with your own identifier and you can try it on guys you know are digging you, to test for reaction. Real cute and innocent. Practice in the mirror.
2006-07-21 16:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by victorious_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HIM! There is no 100% definate sign that every guy uses if he likes a girl. Knock off the games, tell him how you feel about him (alone, not in front of your or his friends) and ask him if he feels the same. Of course, it's scary, but it saves a lot of time and heart ache. Good God, people need to communicate more!
2006-07-21 16:03:34 · answer #8 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey gurl if u think he is too rough then ask him is he always like this that and if he says yea then just say im over with u being so darn annoying and if hes a real man then he will change for u!!!
email me if u have any more questions
peace_full_06@yahoo.com
ps if he says if u dont like that about then get lost email me and ill try to send u some pictures of guys of guy or just forget about that bastard!!!!!!!
2006-07-21 16:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by mimi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm probably not the best judge cause I keep falling for guys who leave me broken hearted. My best advice would be to ask him but if the answer is yes and he trys to get in your pants dont let him make him wait atleast 3 or 4 months.
2006-07-21 16:13:20 · answer #10 · answered by lil sis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋