There is a cool woman that I see several times a week when I get my morning coffee. She works at the coffee shop. She is really cute and is always laughing and smiling, an awesome girl. We always B.S. and joke with each other. I would like to ask her out for drinks or dinner, but I don't want to be inappropriate or come off as desperate. What's your take on this situation? Should I just do it and disregerd the potential outcome or let it go? What are the signs I should be looking for to determine if she's interested or not? Sharing personal experience would be great.
2006-07-21 14:42:06 · 17 answers · asked by windyone27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
apparently, she likes you back! You will not seem desparate at all! She may be wondering why you have not asked her already. Just ask her if she is an available person, and then ask her out! Dont look into the futer, as I dont want to ruin anything potential....just go on a friendly no-sex date, and thats a good way to feel each other out to see if you have an attraction, or just hit it off as good friends! Do some thing active! Have fun and stop waiting!
2006-07-21 14:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she have a ring?? if not then i say u already have some attention from her, so go on ask her if she would like to go have a drink sometime the worst she can say is no and at least she knows you had what it takes to ask. if you dont ask soon she'll just think your just a nice guy getting coffee/
i did it this lady work at a wal-greens everyday i would go there just to say hi and one i said to myself she going to change jobs and i wont c her again so i work up the courge, walked up to her she turned around and said hey u i was like hey got nervous as hell but finally said can u tell i only come in here because of you she said no u do i said yes so i was wondering if there was a chance you,d want to have a drink? she smiled and said ok and gave me her # that was 3 months ago and she my girl now she still teases me about how nervous i was but hey im smileing now
good luck hope this helps
2006-07-21 22:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by maike j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This situation is like jumping off a cliff, you will either fall in love (meaning love will catch you and you will be safe) or you will break your heart (self explanatory) I am a big risk taker so I say go for it. Unless you are suicidal, what's the worst that can happen.
2006-07-21 21:51:29 · answer #3 · answered by SHYSTI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude! She works at a coffee shop. You can probably take her to McDonald's and call that a date.
2006-07-21 21:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check the ring finger of her left hand, if it is empty go for it. She talks to you and jokes around so she must think you are an ok guy.
2006-07-21 21:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go for it, it would be really awesome. i mean you guys are close right now from the things you say mayb she is interested as well. i say u go 4 it and dont let anything stop u.
2006-07-21 21:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, maybe ask her out for coffee.
Just kidding, of course. Continue talking to her about casual things, then ask her out after a few weeks. Just do it :)
2006-07-21 21:51:15 · answer #7 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes- just go for it. If you don't ask her, you could be missing out on something great.
2006-07-21 21:44:54 · answer #8 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she talks and laughs with u then she probably likes u too.....i mean if a guy i didn't like started talking to me i wouldve made an excuse to leave...but she didn't so u might have a chance! lol
2006-07-21 21:47:08 · answer #9 · answered by kkk09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutly, ask away. whats the worst that could happen? desperat would be if you ask her everyday from that point on.
2006-07-21 21:45:40 · answer #10 · answered by Seraphiel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋