Everything is fine but i feel like iam kinda attracted to other people yet i cant bare the thought of hurting him! What should i do? I am really attached to him and i think that we are really used to each other, I mean we see each other every day and are constantly calling each other. Ive been with him since i was 14 iam now 20. I really dont wanna hurt him! I wonder if this is just a phase or is something really wrong??
2006-07-21 14:40:40 · 5 answers · asked by skittles1271 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes it is a 6 sense that maybe he is doing something Wong. Maybe you have grown up and you are more mature and you want more from a relationship
2006-07-21 14:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by Richgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen up kiddies. Take a lesson here. This is precisely what happens when you just have to "go out" and have a boyfriend/girlfriend at 14. Tired of him after 6 years? It's no phase. It's called maturing. Although in your case this is questionable if you have to ask this question here.
Don't want to hurt him? Then stay with him. But...you'll hurt him anyway. It's unavoidable. If this is the way you feel now...well...the relationship is doomed. If moreso if you foolishly get married.
"With him since 14"....sheesh
2006-07-21 21:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's better to let him know and let him go the longer you wait the more he will question why. It's much better to let him start getting on alone or with someone else than to leave him dangling. I know it's hard I've been the mean ex girlfriend before but in the end it's much healthier to cancel the romantic relationship.
It's not fair to him or yourself tostya with him, and you certainly won't wan tot cheat on him and make him feel that much worse.
2006-07-21 21:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by double v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a brake from each other that might help to clear your mind
2006-07-21 21:45:15 · answer #4 · answered by EVY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think what u need is sometime for your self and ur friends just chill all the gurls
2006-07-21 21:55:00 · answer #5 · answered by andrea_lara92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋