I'm dating my buddies little sister. I know i'm breaking the "no dating your friends little sister rule" but she's so damn hot, nice, funny, did i mention hot? Her brother hates that we're dating and has threatened a couple of times. Told me today that i was to end it with her...i don't want to. Not at all. Me and this guy have been friends since the 6th grade. And now he won't even talk to me. He also thinks i'm to old for her...she's 19 i'm 25. Thats not to old...is it? Should i end it with her...or not? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-21 14:08:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow! That's a toughy. Get pounded by big brother, or lose your hot girlfriend? I definitely wouldn't want to be in your shoes. Perhaps big brother doesn't want you to be w/little sister because he's heard how you treat other women, or seen it even? I don't know I'm just making a suggestion. A lot of times, if a friend is a good guy and they know it, they won't have a problem allowing their sisters to date. But if the friend is a dog, and they know it from personal experience, then I'm guessing they might have a problem. I mean you did mention that she was "hot" a few times in your question.
My advice: 1st off, make sure your intentions w/little sister is pure. Because if they're not, then big brother is justified in not wanting you two to be together, and has probable cause when he pounds you. If your intentions aren't pure then I'd suggest breaking it off. Don't let something like a roll in the hay break up a friendship. But, if you do have good intentions, and this girl is someone you can truly see yourself with, I'd say try to keep talking to big brother. Get her to talk to him also. Maybe hearing it from her how much you guys being together means will soften his heart. Whatever you do, try to end things peacefully. Because if you guys end up fighting, little sister may not care too much for either of you.
Best Wishes!
2006-07-21 14:16:58 · answer #1 · answered by PseudoQuasiX 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sit down with this guy and let him know you dont want the booty call from his sister, that you are genuinely interested in her and that you care deeply. Sometimes you really cant help who you fall in love with. I dont think your too old for her, but you and the friend really need to talk about this and try to reach a positive conclusion. Maybe you and your girl could sit down with him and do this. Maybe if he sees the two of you together happy and in sync he'll back down some, he just needs to see that you mean to do right by his little sis. good luck
2006-07-21 14:14:26 · answer #2 · answered by rednecksurfer_roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not too old. Don't end it if you are truely interested in her and not as just a "trophy" girlfriend. Your friend probably is just being protective of his little sister so make sure you treat her well and if you decide to end it be gentle and kind with her.
2006-07-21 14:13:58 · answer #3 · answered by Dellajoy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you and her should sit down and have a talk with him. He's probably thinking that you're abandoning him for her and feeling threatened by your relationship. I don't think that the age is that big of a deal since she's of age and old enough to make her own decisions.
You both need to talk to him about the situation.
2006-07-21 14:11:38 · answer #4 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooooh, Thats Delicate. I say dump the girl, and resume the friendship with brother.
2006-07-21 14:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by ScottsdaleBlessed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say dump her for a little while until he realizes that he was wrong .Maybe soon in the future he will let you go out with her.Just keep your relationship with her on the down low.
2006-07-21 14:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by california kid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i know its a hard decision but never should you place your girlfriend between yourself and a good friend. especually one that has been that good of a friend to you for so long. friends are forever girlfriends are now. just be carefull you friends wont leave you as easy as she will.
2006-07-21 14:14:49 · answer #7 · answered by thekidwiththeredhair_yay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fIRST OFF IF HE'S YOU'RE FRIEND AND KNOWS THAT U LIKE HIS SISTER ALOT HE SHOULD BE HAPPY FOR YOU. AND HE SHOULD WANT THE BEST 4 U. bUT i CAN SEE WHAT HE'S TALKING ABOUT THAT IS STILL HIS LITTLE LITTLE SIS.
2006-07-21 14:20:16 · answer #8 · answered by mizz_stunt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide, which is more important to you. Your friend's friendship or your lust for his sister...
Men!
2006-07-21 14:12:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends..Bros b4 hoes i always say.Orrrrrrr you could just go where the puuuuuussy is.
2006-07-21 14:11:45 · answer #10 · answered by pogieboy316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋