When interested in dating someone should looks matter if the person has a good heart and is trying to do good? Could you see yourself with someone that is nice/okay looking but not a model(i.e. they have some physical flaws)?
2006-07-21 13:53:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you shoud listen to your heart and if your heart is telling you that you love her, then go ahead and do not worry about anything else
2006-07-21 13:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can look good if they really want to. Haven't you seen any of those makeover shows. They start out with an ugly duckling and turn them into attractive swans. I personally always looked at how a person kept themselves up, whether they where Gorgeous or not. A handsome guy with a crappy attitude and BO is just that. A nerdy guy who is cleanly shaved, freshly showered and fresh minty breath is way better in my book. Same with women. You can have a very attractive girl with greasy hair and tattoos and body piercing all over her body, and she looks like a slutty girl. You can have a wall flower with a great hairstyle, great outfit and a good manicure & pedicure, and she looks smashing. It's all in how a person carries themselves.
2006-07-21 21:04:07 · answer #2 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks can be decieving...u can tell a lot about a person by how they look most of the time, and who they're hanging out with at the time, but however there are some cute nice guys, but if u find the right one then thats cool, because u have to approach the person yourself, there has to be a certain attractiveness to them for u to go up to them, and as for physical flaws...nobody's perfect, everyone's gonna have something not right, but thats life
2006-07-21 20:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by sk8chik1300 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks matter, I say this cuz i dont want a guy to come hitting on me if he dont use deoderant or even take a bath or shave..
I like a guy who take cares of himself and looks good but does not overdo it by puttin too much cologne on that attracts other people ya know.
I rather a guy that has the look and the heart and the brains and not always with his best friend ya kno.
2006-07-21 20:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by deviousbeautifulangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think our interpretation of someone's appearance changes drastically once we get to know them.
For example, someone may be considered "attractive", but if they are evil or mean, they definitely don't look quite so attractive.
Conversely, someone who may be average looking can appear completely attractive and gorgeous because they are really really nice or kind or funny. Our feelings for someone definitely influences whether we think they're attractive or not. I've dated some guys who I thought were really good looking, but once I've broken up with them and some time has passed, I wonder what the heck I was thinking... they were FAR from attractive and in fact, down right ugly. But my feelings for them made them seem really attractive to me WHILE I was dating them.
Weird.
Also, what one person thinks is attractive may not be appealing to another... "attractiveness" is definitely in the eye of the beholder.
2006-07-21 20:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by lily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad you asked that, cuz I'm going through the same thing exactly. What I found is that even if the guy is so so, his personality will make up for it tenfold. If he can make you laugh, make you feel special and respects and cares for you, forget about the looks. You'll go much further with a nice guy than with a boring, dumb handsome guy. Give him a chance, and you'll soon fall in love with the total package, not just the wrapping.
2006-07-21 20:59:24 · answer #6 · answered by CC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course i would date someone that wasn't model material if he was a good person. Once you look at someone everyday, no matter how good they look, they become just 'joe' (or whatever their name is) and what you are left with is putting up with the personality.
2006-07-21 20:57:28 · answer #7 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think a guy with a good heart is very much a turn -on but of course it doesn't hurt to be physically attracted to the person......just keepin it real.....HOWEVER, i'd rather date a not-so attractive guy who is a genuine good person than one who is model -looking with a horrible attitude
2006-07-21 21:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all do you have physical flaws....of course you do. This is all part of the human race. I really do believe we need to be attracted to the person we want to be with for that chemistry sexual relationship, but we need to think of the whole picture. If you spend your life with someone, mother nature changes our physcial appearance and there is that wonderful person (that isn't skin deep) that we love to spend time with.
2006-07-21 20:59:22 · answer #9 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, well.. To me, the person I'm interested in is beautiful/handsome to me. To someone else, they might be FUGLY. So no, looks don't really matter. I'm not into the superficial "model" appearance. As long as they're healthy and can handle me, then it's good to go. Life's too short for b.s.
2006-07-21 20:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course there should be attraction coz thats the first step that makes you want to get to know the other person !! but attraction doesnt mean perfection !!! you might find someone gr8 looking but for someone else might not be all that !!! you find to find the perfect thing in UR eyes to look at !!! havent you spoken to a model-looking person and eneded up being without IQ???? so believe me attraction is needed coz if you start a relationship and sex is involved you must be attracted to the persons appearance!! so i always look for attraction n then see if their brain works and i guarantee you ... i spoke to someone once that wasnt all that ... but i got so attracted to him after we talked .. thats the best!!!
2006-07-21 21:01:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋