I don't know what the hell happened. I met him through my boyfriend about 2 years ago and felt nothing. He stayed with us for 4 days and nothing. Then about 3 months ago I saw him in Vegas and haven't been able to stop thinking about him. I did tell him that I wanted to have a mad romp with him but we couldn't. I know he wants me to(but what man wouldn't? I'm a lingerie model for crying out loud). Then earlier this month we saw eachother again in San Diego and everytime he looked into my eyes I felt like we were the only two people in the world. He is so attentive to me and although I was so drunk(because he makes me so nervous) I don't really remember what happened that one night in San Diego but I do remember telling him that I wanted to **** his brains out and I think he said he would let me. He's coming to town early next month and it's driving me crazy because I think I want to be with him in a sexual way and in the relationship sense. But my boyfriend-I don't want to hurt him.
2006-07-21 13:21:43 · 4 answers · asked by Mico Midnight 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I separate the person from who they are, i.e. a body part, that person has an incredible bottom, or they are hot, I am separating the person from who they are to how they appear/look. I am also idealizing who they are based on the objectification of their body, i.e., because that person is hot, I would like to get to know them, or somehow they are appealing emotionally mentally because they are hot. As I am objectifying, lust shows itself in fantasy. What would I like, what would I like to do with and to them. So I would say when the idealized picture of this person is replaced with reality, IE., who they really are. You can accept and be willing to see past faults, issues, problems because Love carries no jealousy, love doesn't judge, love don't do anything for self gratitude, love gives unconditionally, love is trust, love is respect, love is truth!
2006-07-26 20:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe you are playing with fire. People tend to get burned doing that. :) If you care enough about your boyfriend to care about his feeling, a good deal of that should be done prior to rash decisions that could cost you dearly. However, you should also evaluate these feelings. Maybe you do still care very much about your boyfriend, but not in the relationship kind of way anymore. Something to think about.
2006-07-21 20:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by blackwind45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's lust, pure unadulterated lust.
If you want to lose your boyfriend....and have this man KNOW you would screw HIS best friend then go for it.
You may end up alone after this.
2006-07-21 20:27:24 · answer #3 · answered by mothertime2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
screw it. u both want to do each other badly. get it over with and bang each other's brains out. the other poor slob doesnt have to know
2006-07-21 20:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by marabierto1961 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋