listen, to all of the people who responded to my first question, thanks. some of yall got it all misunderstood. yall made it sound like i don't care about my son. I love my son very much and you have no right to judge me. plus, if i do become a singer, i would be doing what i love and taking care of my son. so, all you can do for me is to wish me good luck. I'm gonna make it so all of the baby mamma's who are in the same boat can have some encouragement.
2006-07-21 12:37:33 · 13 answers · asked by janellieluvu 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
sister i understand what u are saying.
do u believe and have FAITH IN GOD? I KNOW THAT U SAID YES. if it's Gods will
i will see u when u make it big u and your son
u go girl
i love ya
2006-07-21 12:44:56 · answer #1 · answered by k3herring@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you seem like a very ambitious person, and I commend you for trying to make a good career and a good life for you and your family. I read your original question, but not the answers, so I'm not sure exactly what responses you got from everyone. I assume that you probably got a lot of flack for your question, and my guess is because the way you worded it. Your son should never "get in the way" of anything. I know what you mean, but some people don't take the time to read the whole question, or try to interpret your real meaning, if your wording was a little "off".
He's young yet, and my personal opinion is that the first years of a baby's life are the crucial ones. If I were in your shoes, I'd put off the singing career for a while...maybe at least until he's in school. This means several years of putting off what you love, but you love your son too...which is ultimately more important to you? I think you can do this, but I'd wait a while longer. :)
2006-07-21 15:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 11:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, i just read the responses to your last question, very few people sounded like they were even close to judging you. almost every entry said to not give up on your dream and I agree. Your son will be your number one fan, include him in your singing. Sing to him :) kids love that. (also sing for your career, almost all country singers have kids and do just fine. (not that other singers don't have kids, but I saw it mentioned that singers don't have families, not true)) anywho. gotta get back to work.
2006-07-21 12:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by IcePrincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I as a Mom do wish you the best of luck. I think its great you are looking to better your self and make enough so your child will have no wants. Goos luck (once again )
By the way I am from texas too ! Y'all (you all ) have a good night!
2006-07-21 12:44:03 · answer #5 · answered by Z-Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you expect everyone to take your question it is "will my son get in the way....." perhaps if you phrased it like " Can I still be a good mom and have a singing career?" people would respond differently.
2006-07-21 12:42:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is impossible. If you really want to sing professionally it means you are probably going to be on the move playing gigs. That would mean child care arrangements. If there are good alternatives or loving relatives to help, why not?
2006-07-21 12:42:39 · answer #7 · answered by natsubee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep in mind that you are a mother first and until your child is able to take care of himself everything else is secondary.GOOD LUCK
2006-07-21 12:55:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your somewhat fractured english makes it hard to understand you. What is "yall"?
2006-07-21 12:41:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure whatever you do you put your son first
2006-07-21 12:42:03 · answer #10 · answered by Heather H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋