Ok, my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months, and we already don't talk all that much anymore. I mean, we never have a real conversation or anything. We don't spend that much time together either, and it doesn't feel like he wants to anyway. I was out of town for 2 days, and when I came he really seemed to miss me, he also says he loves me and I believe him. But....our relationship is just boring. Should I break up with him? Or talk about it with him first? If I should break up with him, how am I supposed to say it?
Thanks in advance ♥
2006-07-21 12:16:00 · 7 answers · asked by ButterflyAngel 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
3 months is not enough time to get to know a person and already lose interest. If you are already having doubts about your relationship than it is time to either initiate a talk with him being honest about the way you feel. or you just need to get out he may not be that right one for you. You have to ask yourself is this the man that is going to spring me forward in my life. Is this the man that I want to spend time with and grow old with. I do not what age you are but if you are young there are plenty of other men that would be more interested in you than this one.
2006-07-21 12:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by Ron f 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't break up for that. I foy don't it's cause you don't care about him. Just try to make conversations and time. Do your own thing when you are hardly together. You might want to break up cause you are thinking about him too much and it bugs you that you can'rt talk or see each other so you figure to hell with this all. Seriously, though, don't. Talk to him about the problem. Relationships aren't always going to be problem-free and everytime you have a problem breaking-up being the answer only means you need to grow up before going out with someone again. Good luck :D!
2006-07-21 19:21:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you decide to break it off, I would recommend doing it in a public place. Perhaps after, not before, your meal at a restaurant or maybe by just talking on a bench in a mall. We had a situation in our area where a young lady broke up with her boyfriend at a secluded park; her nearly lifeless body was found, and thankfully she recovered weeks later. She had been beaten, apparently because her boyfriend was upset over the breakup. According to reports, he had never been violent to that point. While you talk with your boyfriend, ask him what he wants out a relationship? Does he feel he's getting what he wants out of your relationship? Be prepared to answer those same questions yourself. Do your best to part on friendly terms.
2006-07-21 19:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by Mike S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to try then here:
my friend elizabeth was the same way w/her boyfriend its been about 5 months now and they are totaly comfortable around each other and have the best relationship but it was the first few months that were shaky. if ur willing to work it out i think it will get better.
if your just plain tired of him:
tell him what you told us!
2006-07-21 19:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by Angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well look him in the eyes and i'm sorry this is not working out for i'm not feeling anything in this relationship or just leave him alone.
2006-07-21 19:38:52 · answer #5 · answered by flirt_love_baseball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its too early in a relationship that his giving you this bad sign...right? its too soon. well anyways this IS all up to you the QUESTION IS
WHAT KINDA RELATIONSHIP ARE YOU LOOKING???
ARE YOU STILL HAPPY??
IF YOU ANSWER THIS WITH NOOOO
WELL I GUESS ITS TIME TO MOVE ON AND DONT WAIT UNTIL YOU DEVELOP MORE FEELINGS WITH HIM...TRUST ME THATS GONNA HURT MORE.
GOOD LUCK
2006-07-21 19:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u and him both have a cell phone send him a text message
2006-07-21 19:21:19 · answer #7 · answered by pregant help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋