I got this boyfriend and been with him for like 3 months..umm he's one year younger than me and he likes to play alot like say things like "Shut ur *** up"! and then says "Im just playin Babe". I know he's just playin but on the other hand its very disrespectful to me and i dont like it. So How Should I tell Him To stop talkin to me like that???
2006-07-21 12:10:43 · 13 answers · asked by brittspreppie504 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be like I know ur playin around, but after awhile it gets old, tell him to come up with new sayins all the time!
2006-07-21 12:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by bettyboop344 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him when you think its a good time, be honest, and make it clear it's not something you want in your relationship at all. And dont get agressive about it in any way at any stage, that never helps.
2006-07-21 19:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by Daniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "Baby, I know you are just playing, but it comes off as being very disrespectful to me, so could you please chill out with that?"....And if he gets offensive, then maybe he isn't mature enough for a relationship right now.
2006-07-21 19:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he is trying to see how insulting he can be. Remember this: "Many a truth is said in jest." In other words, he means every word he says. Dump him. He's bad news.
2006-07-21 19:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not comfortable with his responses towards you then yes. You should tell him to stop talking to you like that and why.
2006-07-21 19:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by Kris_Bliss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell his straight up that you felt disrespect maybe he doesnt know that....maybe for him he think thats okay for you coz your not saying anything about it.
talk to him in a nice way and beside dont wait forever to say it to him coz if you wait...he might get used to that and its hard to stop him and it might get worst.
2006-07-21 19:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like you told us, "I do not enjoy when you play with me like that, I find it disrespectful. Could you please stop talking to me in that manner? Thank you."
You could start with, "I really enjoy being with you, but what I do not enjoy when you..."
2006-07-21 19:16:29 · answer #7 · answered by latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how u feel. believe me, if he cares, he will stop doing dumb sh**, ya know? if he dont stop...that might be a warning. but 4 now, jus tell him. Good-luck, chick!
2006-07-21 19:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by Boss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! respect yourself...and its worse cause its a guy saying it to u...so it seems (maybe to other people) that hes a abusive bf(verbally) worse than he really is
2006-07-21 19:16:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
act hurt even if ur not
just see what that does to him
2006-07-21 19:17:40 · answer #10 · answered by starxxgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋