Help me, do u think I am GAY?

Question

pLS GIRLZ HELP ME. I am a female. I like girls, but I would NEVER imagine being a lesbian. I like to pretend to be a guy and dressed up like one and being one, but I am proud of being a Female. It's just that male gets a lot of advantages like not having to deliver a baby or not having to worry to shave or put make-up on. I always beings imagine myself marrying a Guy,.

Please don't tell me - I'm bi or weird.

I know I need some help!!

Answer 1

Looking at your other questions, it looks to me like you're still fairly young. You say you're proud of being female, yet you disguise the fact that you are. I'm guessing that you have some self-image issues that you need to work out. If there are things about yourself that you don't like, you should consider doing what it takes to change them, or if you can't, learn to live with who you are. Not every woman is going to be a supermodel -- and those that are suffer the same issues with finding happiness as everybody else. The funny thing is that as a younger teenager, you may be looking at yourself and thinking that you're not terribly attractive, but as you grow older, remember that attractive is as attractive does. This doesn't mean you should flirt excessively, but you should take care of your body, have confidence in yourself, and most importantly, get an education so your brain is always better than your body. Also, keep in mind that it's normal to have more friends of the same sex at that age, and you should feel no undue pressure to get cozy with the opposite sex any time soon. You're still young, so you should be wise about approaching sexuality, and realize that waiting to have sex until you're older -- perhaps even into your 20s -- will no doubt serve you better in the long run than rushing into anything too soon. Any friends who push you beyond what you're comfortable with are no friends at all. My two bits.

Answer 2

If you don't fantasize about relationships with females, only males, I think you are normal. How old are you? When I was in grade school, I wanted to be a boy because they had advantages girls didn't & girls were so gossipy & fake sometimes. You don't necessarily have to wear makeup. Shaving kind of sucks but most guys shave their faces & complain about how that hurts. If you really don't want to give birth there's always the possiblity of adoption. You have lots of choices so don't get hung up on thinking you are supposed to be a certain way.

Answer 3

You aren't weird --- you didn't state your age but I can tell you must be pretty young. One thing (later down the road - way later) you will be eating your words. I'm talking about having a child. Being pregnant (when you are older - I can't stress this enough) is one of the luckiest things we do have as women. It may scare you now and that is a GOOD thing but just wait......you'll see. You just don't know what to expect is all and you have a fear of the unknown. Don't be scared -- you're wasting time worrying about things that haven't happened and to top it off, aren't even close to what you can possibly imagine. Enjoy yourself. The only things the guys have on us is "comfortable shoes" LOL

Answer 4

I dont think you're gay from what you've said.
Also, guys have to shave their faces, and i think they may hate it more than women hate shaving.
Lots of girls have no problem kissing or being with a girl, but are not interested in relationships. You're just built that way; do what you feel and things will come out fine.

Answer 5

HAHA! nooooo hon, i was in that position. I used to look at females too but that doesn't make me lesbian. I used to be a tomboy and now i'm a woman lol.

You dont need any help, its just a phase your going thru and if it continue to be like that .. its okay, if u choose to be like a woman one day then that is okay but you will never lose your cool cuz i know i still have mine. I still attract many male friends because of my personality.

You'll find yourself. I found myself at the age of 17 so your a late bloomer like me.

Answer 6

You know, what you are displaying in your actions and in your description thereof, is penis envy. Check it out for yourself if you think I am being inappropriate. Do not fret over it, the reason there is a name for it is because it exists in much of the population, female,of all countries on this planet anyway... it will pass. By the by, I am not one of the GIRLZ, what I am is qualified to advise you on your current behavior.

Answer 7

you are not gay at all a lot of people have these problems they are not serious you just like dressing up as a guy you like guys and if you like girls thats is o.k. because a lot of women feel that way but will never imagine there self being lesbian

Answer 8

Listen, I have some great advice. All you need help with is your ways. Try to act more girly . I was a tomboy also but i grew out of it ! I thought I was kinda gay and then boom!. I fell in love with Chris Brown. I stated to go shopping more , and thought what if Chris was here so I started to go back to the junior girls clothes and before I knew it I was a girly girl. So my advice for you is to find a good looking man and dress the way you think he would like you to dress, (girly). Act the way you think he would want you to act,(girly). Your Welcome !

Answer 9

no,ur not.! ....i think, .......ok ur not.... being a female has alot of advantages too but even if i tell u it would even better to experience these and u'll do that while u grow and besides having a baby is something precious and shaving is not so bad and u dont have to wear makeup to b a woman or beautiful. but yet again, u'll find this stuff out as u grow.....!!!bye.

Answer 10

Why did you ask this question if you say at the end :"Please don't tell me - I'm bi or weird"? second off if your bi it does not mean your weird it means you fall into a 30% category of the human race. Be who you are and sleep with what you like its your choice that's why you have your own mind stop using other peoples.