when I was going out fior a night out...she said 'Are you going to speak to me' ...I ignored her and carried on to speak to my mum to tell her I was going out. My sister said in aloud voice 'We have not spoken for two weeks'...i just ignored her. As I guessed as soon as I stepped out the door ...she begins shouting at my 68 year old mother (she is 30 years old) that we should be talking and that my mum should sought it out. She called me a bastard and I slapped the door. I don't trust her..she is a liar, manipulator, and again as predicted she can't speak in a decent way she has to raise her voice and cry...pathetic. Well I was determined not to let her ruin my night. She is in no way grown up. I am just going to come home from work everynight , get my dinner and stay in my room....that has suited me fine over the last two weeks ...than having to make an effort with her as my sister. We are not close. If we were not related she wouldn't want to know me anyway. Is she is overreacting?
2006-07-21 11:55:12 · 12 answers · asked by Rain M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your sister is 30, how old are you? And still living at home. Time to move out on your own.
2006-07-21 11:59:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your sister....life is too short to be like this....whatever the problem is, it cant be that bad that it cant be dealt with. I feel sorry for your mum, as she is stuck between the pair of you. I guess as your sister is thirty, i assume you are in your twentys.....you are both old enough now to go and find your own space somewhere, and give your mum some peace....or do you live at home because its cheaper, if so, then that is just selfish, and your mum needs to kick the pair of you in the right direction. Just out of curiosity, where is your father in all this?, what does he have to say about it.
2006-07-23 06:22:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not get along, but you would be devastated if something happened to her. I think that she would devastated if something happened to you.
My brother and I drive each other crazy. We are not the same people, and it seems that I don't know him at all, at times. I still love him, although he annoys the living sh*t outta me.
No matter how mad I get at him, I will talk to him, even if it's just to say, "I love you, but I'm too mad at you, and I don't want to talk right now."
You'd feel guilty for the rest of your life if something happened to your sister, and she died thinking that you hated her.
Tell her that you love her, but that you hate the things that she does. Tell her that you two are too different to be close, anymore, but let her know that you still care.
She's your sister, and no matter what she does, she's still going to be your sister. By giving someone the silent treatment, you're not being any more mature than she is.
2006-07-21 12:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by <3 The Pest <3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 35 my sis is 38, we still argue and ignore, but bottom line is.......if anyone an i mean anyone treated her like i do id do them xxxxx we just clash, if u guys r still at home....that's just surreal.... id rather live in a tent than live with my sister, or even my mother come to that..........omg just realised 1 weeks camping holiday august bank holiday with family aggggggggggggg can we swop ill sort ur sis out u sort mine xxx PS i would never call my sister a bastard maybe a bar steward but not bastard, my mum would kill me xx
2006-07-21 12:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, sounds like we have the same sister!
for years my sister manipulated me into things that i either didn't like or didn't want to do... i stood up to her and she made my mum's life hell! but she hasn't got the balls to do it to my face now - we haven't spoken in a year.
i'm not close to my sister either, and alot of the time i was scared of her! you shouldn't have to stay in ur room, be in her face, and let her know that u will not put up with it anymore! it's not fair to u or ur mum
yeah ur lucky to have a sister, but boundries need to be in place, a sister wouldn't make u feel bad about urself, or take it out on others just so that it makes u look the bad one.
2006-07-24 06:51:51 · answer #5 · answered by storm.minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are overreacting.
Why does she not mean more to you than that? You might not know each other if you weren't related, but that's the beauty of it- two people who are different can share a family. Rethink everything you have been through with her and talk it out.
2006-07-21 12:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up for goodness sake, the pair of you.
Can you imagine the effect this is having ion your Mum.
Stop being selfish, be the bigger person & start talking to her again now. You are adults so start acting like it.
2006-07-22 00:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by monkeyface 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she is ovrerreacting it depens on the age of your sister she might be jellous of you just talk to her and if she starts on you just blank her she will soon calm down and in a few months ya never no you could be best friends good luck
2006-07-21 14:31:52 · answer #8 · answered by Andrea C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is to short to be arguing with your sister your poor mother is stuck in the middle its her i feel sorry for you and your sister need to talk even if its just to keep the peace in the house for your mothers sake because i am sure you love her
2006-07-21 12:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont wanna talk to her then dont talk to her you have those rights as a person so ignore her all you want i do it all the time to my sister
2006-07-21 12:00:26 · answer #10 · answered by Joanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋