I really like this guy. He is going into the eight grade and im going into the seventh grade. He gos to my campfrom 9:00 to 12:30. I'm really shy so i don't talk to him. He doesn't talk to me. I really want to go out with him but im so shy. Another problem is he is hanging around with his freinds all the time. He is really hot and he has the best smile. I really don't know what to do please help me. There is only a week and ahalf days left till its over. hhellllpppppp
2006-07-21 11:40:00 · 14 answers · asked by kmmswimma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also the camp we go to is at a school. Not outdoors. He usually plays 4 square or dodgebaLL AND I don't like those games. Ilike to watch them but not play them. SAo that is why i think he will never be my friend.
2006-07-23 09:29:28 · update #1
Hey Shy girl
Next time you see him smile at him and say HI at least that would get his attention and then you can ask him what he likes so far about camp as much as he is with his buddies I am sure he must be alone at some time during the day and you can say Hi some guys like girls that take the first step after all he could be shy and want to say Hi to you too good luck !!
2006-07-21 11:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off dont rush it. Take it day by day. Telling him he's hot the first time you talk to him will scare him.
Secondly find out from another source what he is interested so you can talk to him prepared. Say "hey I heard you like ____" and then go from there.
OR
You could ask him yourself. Say Hi, my name is ____. So what's up? What do you like to do? Etc.
Hopefully it goes well and you can get his number by the end of camp.
Oh and dont try to get him to go out with you during camp, become his friend first. Dont act all nervous and googly eyed at him or he will be turned off completely. But just be friends and then on the phone after camp is over or something tell him you think he's a great guy and you'd like to go out with him.
Hope this helps and GOOD LUCK.
2006-07-21 11:47:10 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal Kaye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u havent really given enough details, but basically you have to get him to notice you, and you need to just say to yourself that nothing will ever happen if you dont try. Hang out where he hangs out and if you get a chance to say something worth anything say it. also it can help to overcome your shyness if you have your friends with you, maybe one of them is less shy and can speak to his friends, then you'll have a reason for being there in the conversation and your chances will come. If not, dont stress too much, you're in grade 7, you've got a lot of time to feel things for people.
2006-07-21 11:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by Daniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being shy, just relax!!! You have nothing to worry about. Just smile, say hello. And ask him if he'd like to do something with you. (if your camping then there may be a lake or something...well at least there is where i go camping anyways, ask him if he'd like to go swimming....Or something!!). Get to know him a little more, then just ask him out. Theres nothing to it. If for any stupid reason he says no, then he's dumb and has no clue what he's missing. You can't be so shy, it won't get you anywhere!!! E-mail me if need anymore help!!
2006-07-21 11:51:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you think he's hot and look him in the eyes when you say it , smile and see what happens. He may shy away may even brush you off, but he won't forget you. Confidence goes a long way. Don't change who you are just to please him. life;'s too short and you are so very young. In a few years believe me he and a bunch of others will be chasing you.
2006-07-21 11:47:32 · answer #5 · answered by mygreensilhouette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to find a way to talk to him and let him know how you feel.
try talking to his friend so you could become friends with him and then maybe he will think that you are cool, and might wanna be friends with you or more.
2006-07-21 11:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by Ms_Fairc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talkin to him maybe to start of the conversation talk about something at the camp dont try to rush things try to get to know each other first thats always best you think hes hot but are you so sure his personality is as hot as you think he is?
2006-07-21 11:49:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go talks to him, get his number and led the conversation on to how you feel for him does he like you back or meet up and get to know you better
2006-07-21 11:43:31 · answer #8 · answered by Edward M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try being casual, say you are looking for something you have lost or something and introduce yourself. if you keep being shy you will never get him? im me if you need more help!
2006-07-21 11:44:55 · answer #9 · answered by Tennis lova 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have any friends then let one of your friends talk to him and put in a good word for you
2006-07-21 11:43:26 · answer #10 · answered by Gotta Luv It! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋