2006-07-21 11:30:29 · 20 answers · asked by uknow who 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If a married man has convinced you that he doesn't know how to tell his wife he'd rather be with you, then this man is a genius! And I'm sorry to say it, but you are very gullible. Sweetie, this man is playing you six ways from Sunday!
My advice: Break it off! Men know how to voice their opinion and view in every situation, this one is no different. It's not that he doesn't know how to tell her, it's that he doesn't want to tell her. He wants to stay married, and keep you on the side. Don't ever settle for being the "other woman." Don't be satisfied with being someones second, when you can be someones first!
Best Wishes!
2006-07-21 11:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by PseudoQuasiX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you have serious issues if you are messing around with a married man. Second, think of it this way. He's CHEATING on his wife, with you. WHAT MAKES YOU THINK HE WONT DO THE SAME TO YOU! You should be ashamed of yourself, and so should he. If he doesn't want to be with his wife, then tell him to get a divorce and then you guys can work something out but I guarantee you that he will cheat on you just the same as he is doing to his wife right now!
2006-07-21 18:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by NSeni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fall for this crap!!! If he really loves you and wants to leave his wife for you, he would do it without a problem. If he can stay married and have you on the side, that's what he wants. Believe me. He's having fun on your behalf girlfriend, and you are allowing it. Open your eyes. Do you want a man who doesn't take his wedding vows seriously? Is that what you want? Let's make believe that he did leave his wife for you, do you think he would be faithful to you? Ha!! Think again, honey. I can bet that if you left him, there would be another right after you. He knows how to play the game, honey. Don't fall for it. I am sure he tells you how miserable he is at home. How his wife doesn't understand him. How he doesn't have sex with her anymore because he is either not interested in her anymore and he can only think about you, etc., etc. I can go on and on!!!
2006-07-21 18:36:56 · answer #3 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple a married man is not going to tell his wife. He will say he is going to for years and years and years but it is not going to happen. Besides, if he is cheating on his wife, don't you think that he will cheat on you and who wants a man that cheats. I say run not walk away from this relationship and find a man that is not married, engaged or in anyway has a wife or girlfriend.
2006-07-21 18:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being played this man is eating his cake which means he gets to use you for sex while going home and being with his wife you need to move on this man is lying to you he will never tell his wife about you and he is stringing you along you deserve better so get out and find yourself a single man that has no other commitments and can be 110% committed to you !!
2006-07-21 18:33:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would want a married man...HELLO...if he cheats on his wife he will cheat on you WHEN YOU BECOME HIS WIFE AND THE NEXT SWEET YOUNG THING COMES INTO HIS LIFE.
He's a loser for even screwing around on his current wife, you want tis trash man?
I say get your dignity back, and find a free single man with no strings...AND if in the worst case scenario you became his wife, he would have to pay his ex wife spousal support and that is money you dont get to touch!
2006-07-21 18:36:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
married man and loves you(not his wife) do not go together. When you intrude knowingly on a union between two people u are a homewrecker. I hope he never tells his wife and break her heart over a woman like u who is heartless and doesn't give a damn about a commitment made before u ever existed in his world.
2006-07-21 18:35:40 · answer #7 · answered by Crewgirl13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then the married man doesn't' really love you - he is only in lust with you. Run.....as fast and as far as you can. He is not going to leave his wife for you. And if he did - what makes you think you are so special that he doesn't pull the same crap on you?!
Get some self-esteem and a back-bone and quit fooling around with a cheater and go find yourself someone worthwhile.
2006-07-21 18:34:41 · answer #8 · answered by dddanse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"doesnt know how" Means DOESNT WANT TO!!!!!
Married men are trouble- this man will do the same to you! Dont tell your self you and him are different because you are not... and your probably not the only girl hes cheating on his wife with! Dump his *** and find a REAL MAN
2006-07-21 18:36:27 · answer #9 · answered by ChrissyLicious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have ANY concept of what married is?! Back off. Do not be involved in this in any way shape or form. Come on! Neither one of you knows anything about love. Or respect, or commitment, or honesty, or morals, need I go on.
Leave him alone and take the time you've been spending with him and take a class in self-worth.
2006-07-21 18:37:22 · answer #10 · answered by lor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋