I've blocked his numbers, his messages, everything...but my ex always has ways to come back to me...I took everyones advice and did this, and ignored, and its been 2 weeks....he hasnt gave up. He still is saying, he loves me...and that I am cheating.
This is the guy that says cheating is watching tv, going out, and etc. The other day I did a singing performance in front of lots of people, and he did everything he could, went there, and said Im a cheater, and that if i loved him I wouldnt do that.
i dunno what else to do, he hasnt gave up, all of u said he would. Hes getting worse, trying to contact me, showing up at my house, everything.
One day I hung out with a good guy friend, just as friends, and he called me a cheater, but the funny thing is he hung out with a girl.
I need help what to do, i dont deserve this.;..Im listening to God, and doing everything. Im praying like crazy, and just praising God.
What do i do next?
2006-07-21 11:29:03 · 9 answers · asked by inthisskin22x 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
he has bipolar, and blames me for everything. Hes threatened to punch me and kill me...
2006-07-21 11:35:03 · update #1
Contact the police, this guy is stalking you. Get a restraining order!
2006-07-21 11:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by vonwasden 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even tho he hasnt physically hurt you YET: take action now. file a report at the police station or if it gets more serious "Visit a crisis center or domestic abuse prevention facility in your area and talk to an advocate about your restraining order. Do not try to do this by yourself. The advocate will have blank copies of the form.
2. Get the forms necessary for filing the restraining order in your jurisdiction and read them carefully along with your advocate.
3. Fill in all the information required on the restraining order forms. Tell the truth and give accurate names, dates, addresses and phone numbers. Especially important are details about threats and actual violence.
4. Show your advocate any evidence you have collected: photos of bruises, police reports, doctor's reports, tape recordings of telephone conversations, etc.
5. Follow your advocate's advice on how to present your evidence so the judge can allow it and give you the strongest possible restraining order.
6. File your OFP or HRO request form with the court administrator where your advocate takes you. Tell the clerk how you want to receive your copy of the approved restraining order.
7. The judge will look over your restraining order request forms during a break in his schedule. If he is convinced, he will sign a temporary restraining order. This is called an "Ex Parte" ("ex par-TAY")order, and is good until the hearing.
8. Follow your advocate's advice on how to be safe as the police deliver a copy of the restraining order to your batterer. Statistically, this is the most dangerous time for you.
9. The restraining order does not take effect until the perp gets his copy. If he comes near you before he is served, he is not guilty of a violation. However, that is a good opportunity for the police to serve him. Call 9-1-1.
10. You will be notified when the perp is served. From that moment, be ready to call 9-1-1 and report even the slightest violation of the order. Keep your copy of the restraining order with you at all times.
11. Get copies of the restraining order and give them to whoever needs to know: your landlord, your boss, the principal of your children's school, etc. Tell them to call 9-1-1 if they see your perp.
12. An official hearing will be scheduled, usually within 10 days. This is where the judge will decide if the Ex Parte restraining order should be made official, and extended to one or two years.
13. Attend the hearing with your advocate. Follow your advocate's advice on how to testify. Your perp will have the opportunity to present his side. Any witnesses must be present to testify.
14. Hopefully, the judge will grant the long-term restraining order even after hearing the perp's side of the case. If an OFP, ask for detailed instructions on what the perp can and can not do.
15. Carry a copy of the approved restraining order with you at all times. Report even the slightest violation of it. And celebrate. You now have some powerful friends."
2006-07-21 11:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by clueless_idiot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Get a restraining order.
2. If you do something like a public sho; show the restraining order to the security; along with a photo of him; and let security/police handle it.
3. Your plea does not belong in 'Religion' but some thing related to legal issues.
2006-07-21 11:41:10 · answer #3 · answered by jefferyspringer57@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This post doesn't beong under Religion; it belongs under Legal.
Swear out a restraining order on him. The police will tell you how to do this.
2006-07-21 11:34:00 · answer #4 · answered by silvercomet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could this be considered stalking? Had he threatened you at all? Get an order of protection.
He sounds controllling and manipulative, maybe even abusive. Get rid of him.
2006-07-21 11:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by starting over 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call a lawyer and get a restraining order. He's harassing you, that's all you need.
2006-07-21 11:33:31 · answer #6 · answered by microsvc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you might be a young girl,tell your parents,threathen to call his parents,threathen to tell his friends,threathen to get a restraining order,tell everyone that will listen.The humiliation hopefully will stop him.good luck.
2006-07-21 11:43:05 · answer #7 · answered by mustang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bummer.
The Doctor called me this morning and told ME, that I am pregnant. !!!!
and you think YOU have problems?
2006-07-21 11:38:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the police b/c he's stalking you. stay away from him. that is just plain sick.
2006-07-21 11:33:28 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋