My boyfriend online told me that I need to really think about our relationship if I really want to be in a relationship with him. He said I just talk about sex but never ask about his backgound or how are the girls( his got two girls from previous marriage). I sometimes do ask but not that much. I do love him and the girls but It really hurts to be thought of this way. Do you think he's an *** to say this to me or am I being to dramatic about this. Also, This never came up till he saw my picture and started saying things Like I'm throwing my youth away and Blah... Blah.... Blah.... I think his trying to break it off with me. give me your opinion or advice. Please serious answers, I'm to hurt to be rediculed
2006-07-21 11:27:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As for the online dating, I wasn't looking and we just met by chance and everything clicked. I would have agreed two months ago with the whole no no on online boyfriends, but it just happened.
2006-07-21 11:38:59 · update #1
He's not at all being a jerk. Why would you think that? He's saying something that's important to him, and if you just dismiss it the way you do, it shows he's right.
2006-07-21 11:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by Phil 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi! Listen, you met this guy on line, you have a relationship on line.(not that people haven't found luv on the net but think for a second or maybe three).
He has children and they are girls, when a parent is raising kids and assume responsibility, any relationship they get into is not about them or you for that matter it's about their kids and how it will affect their relationship with their kids.
Regardless of how he felt before or after viewing your picture the finale decision is about his kids.
If you are young, this is a huge responsibility to take on and maybe just maybe he is saving you from a big mistake. So take heed. Some times the price of love is to high.
Last and final thought: sex isn't everything but it sure helps late at night. if you chose to continue talking to him don't talk about sex. Talk about what it is you really want. The comfort of a man.
Sometimes we confuse the need for comfort as sex and maybe this is what he is trying to understand, cause he can't afford to be daddy to another daughter, specially if he is hitting the kitty every night. Sorry , hope this help
2006-07-21 18:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry, I am going to have to make fun of you. First of all, I want to know how can u have a relationship wit someone online. It is hard. I am that type of person who needs someone to hug, hold, and kiss and in other words I got to at least see him. How old are you? Bc it seems as if this guy has more experience than you do. Honey, dont worry, you must ask a guy about his life history because if he have had many sex partners and wild sex activities happening then that tells you something about him and you need to be cautious bc STDs and AIDS can help kill you.
2006-07-21 18:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by Hope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all he is a computer boyfriend and you can never tell who is on the other end whethere they are telling the truth anyways, honey there is one thing about life and that is it is all a game and to never get caught!!! never believe what someone says.. if you feel that you need love and support your best bet is to use if for what it is worth and never get hog tied with this crap. if he feels yo are wasting your youth then let him know he wasted his time by being a father and it doent bother you so why should he have anything to say about your youth
2006-07-21 18:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by gaurdianangelic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really really really don't get loving someone you're having a relationship with on-line. It's like women who marry men who are in prison. I'm sorry It makes no sense and if being ridiculed makes you stand back and take a second look at this "relationship" then consider yourself ridiculed.
2006-07-21 18:35:05 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, you are better off without him anyways..it will be much easier to have a real relationship..than to try to do the online thing..you will get more out of it when it is real
2006-07-21 19:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by hahaha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS AN ONLINE RELATIONSHIP, HOW CAN IT BE LOVE. FIND A REAL MAN.
2006-07-21 18:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by BAG LADY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him more about his life and what he gets up to each day. how his day was etc..... they love to hear that
2006-07-21 18:31:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋