This girl in my class at school asked me out today and i had to turn her down because i was afraid of her asking me to get of with her which is ok but i wouldnt know what to do.
What should i do?
2006-07-21 11:18:49 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be afraid, and don't think about it... it will come to You Naturally.... You'll See.
2006-07-21 11:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by M L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bum: I think u made the correct decision. It is better for the man to do the chasing. If you wait for women to do the asking, you'll turn into a wimp and marry an aggressive woman who is always bossing you around. I kissed a girl in grade 1, but I didn't get laid to much later, so kissing alone won't get you there.
When I was in Jr. High, maybe your age, I used to go to Friday night dances and close-dance with the girls and feel their t its against my chest, that was nice. They liked it also. You don't really need to take anybody, just go and mix with them all. Flirt as much as possible and don't get tied down with any one. That way you will increase your popularity and get a better choice.
2006-07-23 22:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by hellbent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen here sonny, Leave that girl alone, Just hold her hand for now and wait a couple years for the kiss..You are to young to think about that. It is the right time to feel what you feel, but don't act on it. And remember, if you do kiss her, it will be the kiss that all the others will be judged on in her life, So make it count!
2006-07-21 11:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you find the right girl and the time is also right,
all will come naturally .
Believe me 15 is still very young for courtship,
So take it easy , you wont be left behind .
concentrate on body building and sports and be carefree ,
Kissing a girl is not a big deal ,
but enjoying your first kiss, will be something special .
Not any old thing .
Be happy, your day will come
:o)
2006-07-21 11:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by sweet-cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her talk to her! Explain that you like her but because you are self conscious you were scared things wouldn't work out. If you two do go out, wait until you know you can trust her before confiding in her, the probabilty is that she'll secretly be pleased to be your first kiss and because by this time you'll know you like each other it will be meaningful too! Lovely!
Hints: keep relaxed and gentle, too much tongue and saliva can be off putting! Keep your lips soft and enjoy the experience!
2006-07-21 11:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by Emma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here..i haven't kissed any1 n i'm 15-- n go out with her don't have doughts and b self-concious trust me it's a turn off-brush ur teeth like a million times and don't eat anything with onions or that will get stuck in ur teeth - and save urself for marriage ;) spread the word lol-hey and u never mentioned if u like her or not- don't just go and kiss her-she might have herpes lol jk but seriously do u actually like her?
2006-07-21 11:22:33 · answer #6 · answered by 1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, im 16 years old, i havent been kissed had a boyfriend (or a friend with benefits) and havent done anything that would follow, but i think you should give her a chance.
2006-07-21 11:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It honestly comes pretty naturally when the time comes - but you should never go ahead with anything you don't feel comfortable with. However, my advice would be to accept the date, and just politely refuse in a way that won't cause offense if things do get to that stage.
2006-07-21 11:21:14 · answer #8 · answered by lagunium 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying!Kissing someone you like is only a little different than kissing a relative.If she wants to kiss more,then it becomes different because you will feel excited.Nature will take its course,so dont worry.Just make sure you have good breath!
2006-07-21 11:21:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be such a wuss. Go out with her, so what if you've never kissed anyone, there has to be a first at some point, better do it now before your 16
2006-07-21 11:20:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 16 and I havent kissed anyone so... no need to rush... but i still say go out with the girl... its not like she's gonna rape u or something lol.
Good luck!
2006-07-24 11:19:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋