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2006-07-21 11:13:11 · 17 answers · asked by xchaz_rossx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-07-21 11:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by photonic_beam 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's a pretty big step in the direction of a one-flesh relationship. And that is something so close that you really need to make each other the top priority (even above Mom and Dad) and make a permanent commitment - for one thing, to avoid complications like third-party intruders and breakups, and for another thing out of respect for the God Who joins people together.
There is no verse in the Bible that says 'thou shalt not have oral sex before marriage'. But think about it: does it make sense to take *any* steps at all down that road before you are 100% sure you want to marry (i.e. are at very least engaged)?
When I say 'steps', this includes kissing, indeed I know entire churches of people who don't even shake hands before marriage, much less anything else.
Take a look at Genesis 2:24; Matthew 19:3-10; Matthew 5:27-30; Colossians 3:5, Romans 12:1 see how you feel about oral sex after reading those.
2006-07-21 18:26:58 · answer #2 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your religious perspective, but under certain circumstances, use caution. If one of you had the Chicken Pox as a youth, you are carrying the Herpes Simplex I virus in the nerves on the back of your head. Flare ups result in Cold Sores and Shingles. Kissing someone with a Cold Sore, than having oral sex can transfer the virus to the sex organs.
2006-07-21 18:30:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what's right for you. Everyone will give you advice but it may not be the right thing for you. With attraction and commitment comes sex and a lot of other things. Marriage happens somewhere in there too but there is no standard ordering. What is wrong is getting married just to have sex. That is a disaster!
2006-07-21 18:35:25 · answer #4 · answered by Karl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not just OK, it's a good idea. Just like regular sex.
Find out if you're compatible before you get married. The last thing society needs is another divorce case.
2006-07-21 18:19:11 · answer #5 · answered by Roger D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since this is a morality question you are the only one who can decide. As far as having the actual oral sex. Use protection. STD's such as herpes can be transmitted by mouth.
2006-07-21 18:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by All I Hear Is Blah Blah Blah... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oral sex is sex. I would say it's OK, but it's not OK if you're very religious.
2006-07-21 18:20:07 · answer #7 · answered by Song2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean that because of religious reasons, well, sex is sex. If you want to marry a virgin, that won't happen if you have oral sex.
2006-07-21 18:17:46 · answer #8 · answered by No se 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK....I consider oral sex more intimate than actually sex.
2006-07-21 18:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by Farrah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on your morals and the morals of the person you are with. My opinion is yes, but that is me.
2006-07-21 18:17:55 · answer #10 · answered by Rob K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋