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if you are so inlove with someone that the thought of them flips your world up side down can you love them enough for them to never stop loving you i cant explain how it feels to be this inlove but i know without him im lost things blew up and well he says he still loves me but im not sure its like i do for him can my love make his stronger?or is he gone forever and if so how do i tell my heart that how do i stop loving him how do i not just curl up and disappear please help me i dont want to head down this road but i cant pull back

2006-07-21 11:01:39 · 15 answers · asked by rdnckgal_gonwild 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I am sorry that you love him so much. Trust me from experience you cannot make a guy luv you. Just find you someone else that will share/give you that equal amount o of love. Men comes and go and you are going to have to remember that. Find some things to occupy your time and dont do things that remind you of him and do go places that you all love to go to. Remember you are not left alone and there is a man above that love you more than anything in the world. You have time to live and time to find that right person you can love and share your life with. In your next relationship take things slowly and do not rush into things. Seek God first at whatever you do.

2006-07-21 11:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by Hope 2 · 1 0

hey, i have been there when i was younger and let me say that i feel for you. No your love is not enough for two. You cant force someone to feel the same for you as you do for them. There are many different levels to the depths and kinds of love. Its important to clarify what his feelings are for you exactly. It can be pretty difficult to maintain a relationship with someone if they do not love you within the same passionate depths you love them. The important thing to remember is that you love yourself first. If the person does not love you with the same conviction you love them you can still try to make their love grow but you cant force it. It would be best to put the breaks on a bit, and reevaluate the situation. Love hurts much of the time but our hearts are made to bounce back and heal over time, if this guy turns out to not be the one you will find someone who is deserving of all the love you have to give and share that level of love back. Trust me. You might not ever fully forget or get over your current love but in time you will be able to pick up and move on with someone else who will occupy your heart and soul. Good luck!

2006-07-21 18:16:01 · answer #2 · answered by ana_bahebak1 2 · 0 0

Sweetie, it is dangerous to love someone that much. First of all, many people don't deserve your love unless they earn it. As you have recently learned, you only set yourself up for pain and disappointment. To be honest, some people don't understand how to receive love on such a level, so they get afraid and leave. He probably felt smothered and pressured. You can never make someone love you. I repeat you can never make someone love you. He is probably gone and it is best that you do what it takes to heal. It's going to take time and yes it will hurt, but the lesson learned will last a lifetime.

2006-07-21 18:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by Kim 5 · 0 0

Love is not an exchange. Love never been equaled. Love is never a constant, which is varied with time as always. You love someone and wish they would do that in return, it is not practical.

Love is endurance. Love is sacrifice. If you love someone or something, you will do that for no return. If you want something in return, your love should not be called accordingly.

If you just want to own all of him, including his time, his soul, you will ends up with an empty relationship.There is no love. Ask yourself against clear conscious, what is the best for him? what does he really like? Do that for him and you might see the dawn of love.

2006-07-21 18:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by It's amazing?! 2 · 0 0

I"ve felt the same way before and I understand that it's not easy at all. I believe once you've love some one they'll always have a piece of you in thier heart no matter what they say.You just can't LOVE a man into loving you back.It just does'nt work that way as much as you want it to it just wo'nt happen I know from experience

2006-07-21 18:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by ann w 2 · 0 0

There is no way you can make anyone love you.

May I give you a piece of advice? First of all, time will heal that hurt, and I'm sorry that you are hurt. Secondly, the next boy that you like...take it slowly. Don't fall "head over heels"....take some time to get to know them and don't reveal all your feelings at once, wait to see if they respond in kind.

Best of luck to you. Be patient, the right person will come.

2006-07-21 18:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by christian_lady_2001 5 · 0 0

I am sorry to say NO, you cant make him love you no matter how much you love him, it is a feeling that he has to feel. When it comes to matters of the heart things get so messed up, why is it that we can love someone with our whole hearts and they dont love us back it just doesnt make sense.

2006-07-21 18:08:51 · answer #7 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0 0

well i am just going to set u straight. some times guys will go out with you to make you happy for instance your situation there are alot of real nice guys that dont want to see you get hurt so theyll be with you. but in my opinion thats not love. if you love someone you will let them be, even if that person they choose to be with is not you

2006-07-21 18:06:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

it nice to love and be loved, love can be sweet and bitter as well. mostly when one's love is greater than another.loving someone can cause another to love but usually not enough for what is given to them.when love is greater it make the other to mis-behaviour cos they will think you can't do without them,love can be self-centered.learn to control yourself. dont see anyone as the end of your life but GOD.

2006-07-21 18:16:40 · answer #9 · answered by nini g 2 · 0 0

nope not at all.....some others take advantage of you and most likely too much love that you give them will make them drown and they start running away from you.

well if he doesnt wanna be with you forget about it....remember its not your lost. the only advise i could give you just stop having contact with him not until your ready to be friends with him.

it will take sometimes to forget about them..i know that!!!! i been there sooo many times...(i'm tired of it grrrrrr) just kidding LOL

anyways just remember being single is not end of the world...it means to many option for you RIGHT?

GOOD LUCK

2006-07-21 18:06:22 · answer #10 · answered by angel 6 · 0 0

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