1.Hanging up on me durring conversations when he is not getting his way.
2.He thinks it is ok for him to hang out with his friends that I do not like, but I can`t I can`t hang out with friends he doesn`t like-allthough they are girls.
3.Hates to let me out of his sight like I`m a child.
4.He acts like my father, and won`t let me figure things out on my own.
5.Sometimes even talks to me like I`m a child.
But I do love him, and he does take care of me and helps me with everything I need. And makes sure I`m getting the best life.
2006-07-21 10:52:41 · 10 answers · asked by Cheyenne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From what youve said I assume:
He always wants his way or no way
Insists he's always right
Decides whats okay and not okay
Sees himself as the mature one & provider
Thinks of you in terms as "His"..
He might be a control-freak. In whatever the case may be, these things are not okay. You may be younger than him by a few years but you aren't a child & don't have to be treated like one. He needs to stop being immature & re-think his actions. You should tell him how you feel about these things.
2006-07-21 11:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by Joan A. M. 2 · 21⤊ 4⤋
If he was making sure you had the best life he would not -
1.Hanging up on me durring conversations when he is not getting his way.
2.He thinks it is ok for him to hang out with his friends that I do not like, but I can`t I can`t hang out with friends he doesn`t like-allthough they are girls.
3.Hates to let me out of his sight like I`m a child.
4.He acts like my father, and won`t let me figure things out on my own.
5.Sometimes even talks to me like I`m a child.
You may love him, but it doesn't sound like he love you....Live his ***, it will only get worse and someday you will be standing there wondering what happened.
2006-07-21 10:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice, proceed with caution.
From what you've said, he sounds more controlling than childish. Consult a few friends and close family members about his behavior. If you feel like this behavior he's presenting is getting worse you may want to ask yourself, "Is this right for me?"
2006-07-21 10:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by diannidra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then!! What are you complaining about????
Just remember.....when you are able to manage on your own...and stop being such a wimp....his "father" figure attitude is going to get real aggravating.
Guys like that usually had really controlling mothers....and are now expressing their latent frustration on their women. If your happy being bossed around...then just deal with it.
2006-07-21 10:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you need to talk to him and let him know exactly what you just said and how it makes you feel. If he doesn't change, then you should really, really think twice before you commit to someone like this.
2006-07-21 10:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is jst protectin u cuz he loves u...but if it bugs u and he goes outside his limits, tell him to give u some space...i have had the same experience and if u want me to talk wit u, contact me on: triple_t5466@yahoo.com
well figure it out togetha
2006-07-21 11:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by triple_t5466 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs a second mother
2006-07-21 10:55:57 · answer #7 · answered by Velociraptor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl get used to it i was dating a man for 3 and he cheated on me
2006-07-21 10:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there. Do you know what a control freak is? Just wondering.
2006-07-21 10:56:23 · answer #9 · answered by jkcmr2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he IS a child
2006-07-21 10:56:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋