I am just a so-so looking man of 47 who looks younger. I have my picture on my website called intuitiveglobalinvestments. If you look thru the site you will find one of me with spiked hair too on the "tour" page. I feel I look cool and approachable . I make people laugh at work. I am well read, enjoy being silly and crazy and yet truly care about my fellow man. I am a real old fashioned romantic.This has to come out when I approach women yet no one seems to be interested in me in any way. What can I do to appear cool and desirable to women? When I even go to a dept. store and stroll thru the womens or mens dept looking for women who might want company, I never even get a second glance. I am always well dressed. Heck, many times I even put a suit and tie on and walk around malls. I struck up conversations but nobody was interested. I would think a mall is the perfect place to meet women. But I cant even meet them by accident; at work, getting gas, at the supermarket, anything.
2006-07-21 10:49:51 · 21 answers · asked by Daytrading44 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-07-21 10:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by LaZlow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-20 21:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all do not try to appear to be cool or anything. Just be yourself. If you are a hopless romantic than do not appear to be different. You will end up with a heart breaker. Come off as yourself and you will find the right women. Also it is not a matter of how well dressed you are. It might be a put off to some peole like maybe you are out of there league so they do not try. Also you might just attract money grubbers. Also I think you are trying to hard. I know when I go shopping I do not look for men or at them. I am looking for clothes and shoes and other cute things. SO take my advice be yourself, do not try so hard, and you will find someone.
2006-07-21 10:54:50 · answer #3 · answered by Miriah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok pal reply from old men
#1 whats with the web name "day light
trading sounds like you are two business mined try Billy Bob
or Just Plain George lighten up
you missed a good shot here your 360 page setings are closed to the general public so no girls will check you out here or chat rooms an they do check you have invited them to see your pictures then close the door...are you doing the same thing in real life ?
sounds like you are in a office seting try this start buying small vases of flowers for the office women "VIP" start with the oldest first ...lol she is your key if she likes it she will be the queen bee for the day do you lots of good then a new woman each day look they all have daughters / friends nothing big but the tought counts
just place on there desk no card if all men buy dough nuts they have friens to fix the nice guy up with.
2006-07-21 11:14:38 · answer #4 · answered by stillhappy89 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you approachable? I don't recommend looking for women while they are shopping. I know I would first think you were a creep, then I would be irritated because shopping for some women is like a personal vacation. No interruptions please. You might also come across as too good to be true. Be real, relax and enjoy your own company. Attend social events, that's where people who are looking for company will be, not while they are trying to take care of their daily errands.
2006-07-21 10:58:46 · answer #5 · answered by heather j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join the club, we got jackets. bare truth of it is, no woman wants us older guys that are divorced. I'm only 38 but haven't had a date in years. Seems they all (choose one or more), moved to antartica, joined a convent, just got married tommorow, just got engaged today, turned gay, already have a husband or two, have a husband and boyfriend or girlfriend....... the list goes on. Best idea, forget about women, go enjoy life and don't woprry so much about these losers that can't see quality men for nothing.
2006-07-21 11:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by dread pirate lavenderbeard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think you are passed the stage of hooking up on the street or bars, go to some group activities (try some that women go more too)
and remember YOU are THE MAN! and maybe instead of always being in suit,maybe try casual....
2006-07-21 10:54:14 · answer #7 · answered by Snow surfer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try the online dating agencies. A friend of mine went from no women to too many to handle in a few months. He is over weight and 65. Relax and don't try too hard.
2006-07-21 10:54:41 · answer #8 · answered by Dennis Fargo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends what kind of girls you want to be attracted to you. Im sure there is plenty that are attracted to you but your expectation of what kind of girl you want might be completely different....your standard maybe to high or youre just not looking in the right places, or you may not be picking up on the signs that girls that are attracted to you are sending you.
2006-07-21 10:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by Aussieblonde -bundy'd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be nice to women...Women usually like nice guys.
And hey, do not think about it that way. You need to have more confidence. Just believe in yourself, be yourself and have patience.I am sure everything will be OK.
Good Luck ;)
2006-07-21 10:58:38 · answer #10 · answered by Natasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
peoples' choices differs,i belive you are good looking in your own way,the people you've meet so far might be interest, that dont make you odd. be calm, there's some nice lady out there that is yours. try new looks.be funny but not too funny.
2006-07-21 11:00:24 · answer #11 · answered by nini g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋