I can't get enough of them and I love everything about them!
What do I do?
Who can I turn to?
2006-07-21 10:44:30 · 30 answers · asked by Kathy S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(To be read in a Joey Tribiani from Friends Voice) HOW YOU DOIN?
2006-07-21 10:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect you are not that old, in part because you think of this as an addiction.
With "...and I love everything about them!" it sounds like you are very sexually active. If so, remember that sex is a potential, that depends on your personal desire. When and if your standards come into play, and you desire the mutual pleasure from a partner you can look up to, the number of available partners that fit your higher standards will be less.
You should turn to your inner self, and do what makes you happy! Over time, and with some track record behind you, you should find that you will become more select in who you wish to share this most intimate pleasure with. At 1st, for some people, they start out like dogs on a bi-ch in heat, the physical feeling being the most important part. Later, after the thrill is over, there is a hollow feeling. This is because with thinking, you will have taken your standards to a higher level.
For some, the football team in the shower room is their idea of a date, that doesn't usually last long. The feeling of being cheap and treated like a used piece of meat usually cures this form of desire if carryed out.
If this question is honest, I wish you well in finding yourself. Remember, a reputation will follow you, and would never be good for you if you found that one day there was a special person you wanted to be with. How would he/she feel when he/she found out they were the last in the neibourhood to USE you as a human spitoon?
2006-07-23 18:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jim B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that several of my friends and I could probably say the same! A healthy intrest in men is just fine but going from boyfriend to boyfriend (exspecially if you're getting hot and heavy) is not! If you really consider this to be a problem...then you can talk to your friends about it and try to get them to helpyou stay away from some of the men that are causing the problem. Having fun isn't a bug deak just watch what you're doing and who for that matter! :)
2006-07-21 17:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only hope its a healthy normal addiction otherwise you could end up in serious troubles mentally and physically. Why dont you see a psychiatrist. You could be seeking attention
2006-07-21 17:50:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing what comes naturally. Just slow down a little and check out who you like best!!!
2006-07-21 17:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by hrry_tws 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may just have a love for men
2006-07-21 17:48:20 · answer #6 · answered by cream 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with loving men, hun.
2006-07-21 17:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by agergz852 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u wanna change it? whats your problem? u dont like beeing addicted to them? what do you prefer instead? if u know that, just do it.
2006-07-21 18:07:25 · answer #8 · answered by rotacka0687 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A dyke to offset the addiction.
2006-07-21 17:48:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come over and get your fix Kathy.
2006-07-21 17:47:48 · answer #10 · answered by killmylandlord 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋