It does make sense to feel that way.
However, it's not beyond anyone to have self control if they really want to. It really comes down to what kind of morals you want to have.
Do you genuinely care about her and can wait to kiss her until you (possibly) start a "real" relationship?
or
Are you going to be self centered and kiss her for your own enjoyment when you really don't like her.
2006-07-21 10:23:58
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answered by Me 4
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I would say your infatuated with her. There are many women I would love to sleep with, but then I would want to go elsewhere. Now mind you, i do not do that. I couldn't have a relationship with a woman and not share intimacy, but that is what i am reading. You are hot for her, but as far as spending time with her, your not really interested in conversation, but copulation. It's okay, there are women that don't want the mess of a relationship, but just want to "have fun". But think about this, if you have sex with her, you better realize that making love to a woman is different than just sex. Make sure if you get with her that the communication channels are open and clear. Don't break her heart because you wanted to "get some". the only time a man can do that is when the woman wants it that way.
2006-07-21 10:28:24
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answered by jkcmr2 4
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The feeling you are "feeling" is a very natural one and it is good. But you have to control it and respect yourself. Do fun and active things and don't get caught up in sex dating. Only date girls who you are interested in and share some interests- your equal. Have fun but leave the sex alone, both of you until you are old enough to be responsible for consequences that always come with sex-babies and stds! They happen when you are trying your best to be protected,condoms burst or leak, and please do not think pulling out early will stop pregnancy because it won't! Your semen leaks out the whole time from start to finish.You are the only one to control your body and future, so think with your brain! The hormones will not argue with you, they will demand satifaction! Be smarter.
2006-07-21 10:31:46
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answered by Anonymous
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Is wanting to kiss her part of wanting to shut her up? Just be honest with her. She is responsible for her own decisions too, and if she is looking for a lasting relationship and jumps into bed without being sure she has one, she will have to cope. You have to deal with the way you will feel about whatever choice you make though.
2006-07-21 10:26:59
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answered by t79a 5
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ELAX AND ENJOY YOURSELF,
you sound like a responsible , sensible young man, your hormones, like her lol
just have a good time, and kiss her,
just do not lead her on or to bed, then disrespect her afterwards,
I will tell you what i told lmy son re these matters, if you meet a girl date or at a party, etc and things go farther than kissing be sensible,
if you are intimate, treat her like a queen , before, during, and especially AFTER,
Don't put her down, if she is easy, because you were just as easy and sleasy,if you think of it like that, don't do it.
and if you do not want to take responsibility for before after etc, then do not do it,
always if you want her company treat her with respect, while getting to know her, as she trusts you with her time and believes you are decent and safe.
and if she is not your type, try to find out before bedtiime,,
good luck
ps thank goodness for cold showers and masterbation, and you do not have to look your best,,lol
2006-07-21 10:30:47
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answered by Maureen K 4
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If she is not the kind of girl you would usually date, stop dating her. If your not attracted to her personality, then your relationship with her will go no where and you're wasting your time. Find someone you can connect with, so you can have sex with someone who will stick around. That way you wont have to deal with your hormones.
2006-07-21 10:26:22
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answered by Anonymous
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Welcome to the world of manhood. Don't fret little buddy, one day you're going to introduce alcohol into the equation and everything will make perfect sense to you. Hell, it might even induce you to marry someone you really don't like that much. But, fear not, your problems are not problems at all. You have the odds in your favor. You can make the moves on her and not worry that she won't respond becuase you're not that into her anyway. I say go for the home run and see what happens. What do you have to lose?
2006-07-21 10:21:31
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answered by Anonymous
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you sound like one confused guy. try to talk to her and if you really can't understand what she's saying sometimes, tell her that it's not working. don't worry, there will always be someone better out there for you and it might take time. i know it might be hard to let go of this girl, but you're not in love or anything. it's just a crush. so be wise, man.
2006-07-21 10:21:03
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answered by lizalwin 2
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Ugh, another teenager asking a relationship question.
Try to kiss her on the next date
Tell her that you don't go out on a third date if you haven't at least kissed by the 2nd date
If she won't kiss you....
IT'S THE END OF THE WORLD
So, please notify me immediately if she says "no" so I can make plans
2006-07-21 10:20:39
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answered by drsteve362005 6
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Sounds like its not your brain doing the thinking! Ask her what she wants from the relationship and if she sees it going anywhere, you could always say your just looking for a bit of fun and nothing serious.
2006-07-21 10:19:49
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answered by Anonymous
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It's OK to kiss her... it's not like you're asking her to marry you. Now if you had said you wanted to have sex with her even though you don't really like her that much then I would have said to listen to your conscience. It's just a kiss though. You can enjoy that without guilt.
2006-07-21 10:24:12
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answered by Cheryl K 4
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