A couple years ago I found really disturbing magazines of the same kinda genre in his drawer and I confronted him and I made him throw them away but i've never been able to look at him the same way again! Please help!
2006-07-21 10:10:40 · 24 answers · asked by lecouerdunoir 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Get Mom involved in this. One adult should talk to another adult.
2006-07-21 10:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What i'd recommend that you do is get out of that homestead actual this second. do not say some thing for your dad. i'd wait til hes no longer homestead and take that tournament case on to the police. tell them what you got here upon. i'd also recommend that you're taking a seem on the images that seem as in case you and seem for start marks or possibly different figuring out such issues as rings or some thing else. it truly is attainable that your father has been abusing you and view blocked it out of your reminiscence, or possibly your father has been spying on you. i'd also take the laptop to the police besides. i comprehend that interior the united kingdom, the age of consent is 16, so there is not any longer some thing unlawful about him getting access to porn web pages with 16 twelve months olds there. however it continues to be reason for challenge if he has those form of alternative pictures. you're in direct probability of being molested or raped by using him, if no longer sexually exploited in some incorrect way. grab the case and the laptop, visit the police. Get out of the homestead. do not seem decrease back. Your father has a ailment, and the purely way he is going to get more effective is that if he's made to get help by using the regulation. and that is the perfect suggestion i might want to offer
2016-11-25 00:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you snooping in your dads things it is none of your business what he has or dose not have. Who are you to make him throw any thing out. If you do not like what is going on in your fathers home move out. Quite snooping. The man is your father an as long as he is a good father to you, you should have no reason to look at him with disgust. Everyone is in to different things just because you find something disturbing dose not mean it is. It sound like to me there is more going on with you than what your dad is doing.
2006-07-21 10:17:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it; it's very natural and proves you dad is a real man and not a homo. Right now in college frat houses "training films and videos" are standard fare When you grow up and become active just remember what is happening to you would probably make a good porn clip.
2006-07-21 10:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by wealthmaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you mean by "disturbing". If it's just fetish stuff (leather. latex, domination, the list goes on) then what he's doing is legal and as much his own business as what goes on in your own bedroom.
If he has illegal material (children, rape, animals, etc) then you should contsct the police. He was caught once, and didn't stop so you need to turn him in. How guilty would you feel if you didn't turn him in then find out that after you "let him go" he turned around and started abusing someone?
2006-07-21 10:16:49 · answer #5 · answered by cmriley1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how it feels! I have this guy friend and he always hugged me and stuff, but one day i found a lotta porn magazines in his bathroom and i saw things hes been looking at on the net. after that, i couldnt look at him the same and every time he tried to hug me it felt like he was trying to feel me. i havent been friends with him since. i think you should tell your mom
2006-07-21 10:20:21 · answer #6 · answered by dont_break_myheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where do you get off thinking you have any say in what your father does????? or looks at for that much...you've got a lot of gall and obviously your parents didn't make sure you knew they were the adults first and foremost, or else you wouldn't even be asking this question. You should be ashamed of yourself and embarrassed that you were snoooping around your dad's computer... Shame on you.
2006-07-21 10:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your dad looks at these nagazines and videos than u might want to watch out because he might feel horny at times and might want to have sex on anybody he can get his hands on so and causins neice or daughters you need to alert them to becareful because he might try to do something u might want to tell your mom or aunty or grandma his parents or something so they can also keep a watch on him. Make sure he hasnt raped anybody yet turn him in to the police because the goverment is watching stuff like this because theres been many illegal stuff also it will be good for the police to br involved because than they will alos keep an eye on him
2006-07-21 10:16:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can install a porn filter software like NetDog on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's surfing on the internet. http://www.netdogsoft.com
2006-07-21 21:25:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
god your mum has got to know about them. or maybe she already does. i mean some adults watch these kind of movies together. so ask your mum first before accuseing any one. i wouldnt watch them. but some people do. if you still dont like the idea and your mum knows about them id bin em...haaaa
2006-07-21 10:24:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
now thats your dad's choice and you should love him no matter what
because if the shoe was on the foot you would
so just talk and keep an open mind
2006-07-21 10:15:16 · answer #11 · answered by midnite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋