Me and my sister always fight wat can i do to stop it and provent it for happeing??

Question

its insane

Answer 1

That's a tough one. I was the only girl with six brothers. We fought all the time. I would lock them out of the house and they would play "Crush, Kill, Destroy" with me when they found their way back inside.

It's great that you are taking the first step to trying to build a better relationship between the two of you. I would think that any of the relationship improving techniques would work.

Try doing a search on "how to stop fighting between siblings" on Yahoo Search. I just put it in and it looks like there is a lot of information, including other's who have asked the same question on Yahoo Answers.

Good for you for taking the first step to change things. It takes two to fight, so the fact that you want it to stop has got to be a step in the right direction!

Answer 2

Sit down and write a list of things you like about her, it might be hard but i'm sure you can think of at least 10. Then wrap it up and just hand it to her, don't say a word and see what happens

Answer 3

Have a serious talk with one or both parents. Tell them u r not going to put up with her being violent towards you. And you have a right not to be hit on!! Not by anybody....Tell them you are going to call the police on her next time she does this. Press charges. She just may get it in her peabrain. Also, make sure YOU tell her first. Give her fair warning. Try to make sure your parents are going to back you up. Time for a Family Talk.......

Answer 4

Take the first step. Start being nice to her, even if she's a butt. Eventually, she'll be kind in return, but someone has to make the first effort. Good Luck!

Answer 5

Anger comes out when you have a feeling you are being undervalued. You need to manage your anger so the other person doesn't control you. You own your reactions to them. They don't make you angry. You react that way to them. You can't change others--only yourself. You can only limit how much you expose yourself to someone hurtful to you.

Answer 6

well how old is she? if she's younger then u just remeber that she little and doesn't know better. but if she older then just tell her why are we fighting? me and my sister used to fight all the time but after we decided that its beter to talk about it and just let each other know that ur not here to fight but to figur out whats wrong. so i hope i helped u alittle bit!
good Luck!

Answer 7

u need to find a middle ground with her, both of u sit down n set boundries with each otha tell her u dont like to fight with her n u want u2 to be closer, n do stuff togther. dont let ur friends put her down or nothing, stick up for her let her know she comes first wit chu....take it slow it takes time

Answer 8

Look at your life 5 years from now, try to understand her point of view, try to put yourself in her shoes, if you think she is wrong about something try to write her a note instead of telling her to her face...and ask her to reply in writing too...good luck

Answer 9

show respect, agree to disagree, and realize that you r both growing up. it takes two to fight, if you don't like what she is saying so what...she is entitled to her oppinion too. sit down with her one day and talk about how the fighting hurts your feelings and is disrespectful to everyone, maybe that will help.

Answer 10

one you need to compromise and maybe see it from your sister's view
and maybe do some more things with your sister that you both like or have in common.
then you can be the best of friends. ^_^