i like this guy and he lied to me 3 times about liking me and he said he just wanted to b friends so yesterday he started acting like he likes me like he asked for my # and asked if i could take a picture of me for him so idk wat should i do
2006-07-21 10:08:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've liked this guy for at least 3 years and he has liked me in the past. So finally like last month i told him that I liked him for a long time and he said that he liked me too and asked me out but then 2 days later he said sorry i lied i just want to be friends. So now he's acting like he likes me again he asked for my cell number and he asked if i could take a picture of myself for him. I asked him why he wanted 1 and he said cuz I do and put a bunch of smiley faces. So I dont know if he likes me or not
2006-07-21 10:22:28 · update #1
He`s playing with you`re emotions. I would have ditched him a while ago, but if you really like him then you need to just be straight-foward with him. Tell him you`re done playing games, obviously be nice, but tell him about this. For all you know he might not even realize what he`s doing. I know that that`s a lot easier said than done, but if you don`t do that then you should just give it up now cuz it`ll never work out unless you snap some sense into him.
2006-07-21 10:19:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, to tell you the truth, there is no way that I would ever want to be with a guy (even if it's just as friends) if he would lie to me. Think about it, if he lies to you that means that he doesn't respect you, and that could lead to other problems later down the line (even if you were to remain just as friends). Why would you ever want to be with someone, when all you would be is suspicous of what they are doing, and if what they are telling you is true? You would probably end up defending your relationship more than having one. It sounds to me from what you are describing that he is leading you on. And if I were you I would either confront him about it, or just forget about him all together. I know it's bottom line, but I'm a type of girl that doesn't take that kind of crap from anybody. Especially a guy that might become a "future somebody". I hope you understand.
2006-07-21 10:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who has lied to you will continue to lie to you. The lies will become more serious over time. Don't think he's the only guy for you. Spend the wasted time finding someone who you know is interested.
2006-07-21 10:10:47 · answer #3 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes u but more he wants to play around u try to act like a smart gurl no problem if he needs ur number give it up but not picture and besides try to act the way u like him as a friend not more than that give him this impression that u don't care wetherer he is playin around or what...i mean to say if u don't care about some one even if that person wants to play around u he can not coz there is nothing in ur mind to ge close to him or even X-ept him as a bf ....try to be cool , act like a cool gurl who knows guys OK?
good luck
2006-07-21 10:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brush him off and let him continue approaching U...He seems like he's playing games with U....So U can either play them with him or tell him to get lost and don't waist anymore of Ur precious time on a looser that probably doesnt deserve U anyway.
2006-07-21 10:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by HeartsOnFire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an evil puppetmaster and you're his puppet. Cut the strings and tell the jerk to go find someone else to play mind games with. He's using your feelings for him against you to make himself feel good b/c he's got you dangling. It's a power thing. He can't like you, he's too busy loving himself.
2006-07-21 10:13:30 · answer #6 · answered by mytreacheryiseternal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be depending on age heck give it a shot
boys are so fickled in there teen years
helps keep the birth rate down.
2006-07-21 10:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by stillhappy89 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is soooo playing mind games with you. Just forget about that dude and do not give him your pic. It is not worth liking a guy who lies. Once a lier always a lier.
2006-07-21 10:15:22 · answer #8 · answered by a_cute_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never believe a liar, he is using you as a tool for his filthy ends so just dump him and never talk to him. Be very careful with such kinds of people.
2006-07-21 10:13:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, how old are you? You sound awfully young to even be caring about this stuff. If I were you, I would have gone to summer school and taken English over.
2006-07-21 10:10:41 · answer #10 · answered by fourcolor4u2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋