My 15 year old sister is too hot.?

Question

We walk 3 bolcks to the store and usually 4-5 guys stop her and you know they want her. She is offered clothes, money, drugs, cigarettes, food, etc. She always says get lost, but she told me today that the pressure is getting tough to resist. She is an average student at best. She feels the future is in her looks which are tops in all categories--thin, hair past her waist, sexy and knows what to wear to accent her body and looks. She told me she could make $500 a day if she sold herself, maybe more. She is already talking about getting breast implants and stripping at private parties. She really does not need implants--she is big now, but wants porn star ****. She is tired of being broke and having to struggle for her needs. She cant even buy her cigarettes some days and she smokes a pack a day or more. help me.

Answer 1

Do your parents know about this? She clearly needs guidance...someone who can make it clear to her that instant gratification will not make her a richer person in the future. Making money that way will kill part of her....and that beauty will not last...drugs and alcohol will probably be part of her life....and those will not help her maintain good looks. She should be smarter than that.

Answer 2

She's 15, what possible finances could she have. And I can't say anything about the cigarettes, I've smoked since I was 8. Why didn't she get a job at a store or something if she us hard up for money. And just remind her that looks don't last forever. Also remind her there are no pretty hookers in real life only the movies

Answer 3

Wow. At 15 she is much too young to give in to that. Her good looks could easily turn into a curse and she could mess up the rest of her life. Already smoking is a horrible thing, but what she is contemplating leaves that in the dust .
If she waits 3 years, and doesn't do herself damage of the type you're talking about, she could get into Playboy and make some real money, and get herself where she'll have the type of connections that will guarantee her a marvelous life.
I hope she either finds it in herself not to do things that she'll live to regret, or have someone who will be able to motivate her, not to.
I fear for her.
And I wish her all the best, and you for looking out for her.

Answer 4

Find someway to let your parents know without it seeming like you're ratting on her. Maybe they could read your question on Yahoo Answers. My daughter and I each have an account and regularly go to each other's questions and answers. Quite often we both answer the same question and as for questions I ask about her I can get some real honest feedback from her. In a way, Yahoo answers has opened a whole new way of communicating with us, even though we were doing okay before.

Answer 5

She obviously can't be 10. I don't know any 10 year old girls who have to wear an actual bra (not a training bra) or let alone, one who has boobs. Besides, what kind of mom would let their 10 year old daughter wear that much make up? She looks more like she's 14 or 15. Not 10.

Answer 6

There are better ways to use her looks. If she chooses the easiest route, she is sure to have the shortest term gains. You have to make her see the downside to such stupid thinking. She'll be used up, she could be raped or killed, she will be exploited and view men so negatively that her outlook is ruined. As for implants she needs to know that 80-90% of all men prefer nice natural breasts (no matter how small) to bigger fake implant cr*ap.
She's not too hot, she's just thinking of misusing her greatest assets.

Answer 7

Now is not the time for her to give in to that and make that kind of decision. I don't know where you live, but in the U.S, it would be illegal at her age. If you are in the U.S, then it is also illegal for her to be purchasing cigarettes or for somebody else to be purchasing them for her.

Regardless of legality, that is the kind of road you don't come back from. She may think it is fun at first, but before long, she will be in a miserable rut - treated like meat and used daily. Even a mediocre student has opportunities as long as they stick with school and try. Once she is done with school, she can still make this kind of decision.

By the way, hookers and dancers don't tend to get rich selling their bodies to lowlifes. She's looking at a bad path that will leave her miserable and without options down the road and, at 15, she has plenty of time to be a teenager before selling herself out as an adult.

Answer 8

She needs to grow up a little more. She is growing up too fast. Selling her body, breast implants, stripping, porno's is not what a fifteen year old should be thinking about.

Answer 9

you consult a priest in the church and honestly follw what he says
.Tell your sister to not to smoke, this is not her age.
concentrate on ur academics; those ******* have come from hell they'll reach their again. you dont have to sell ur self. their are better ways to life.
its upto u how u wish to c it.
if think all **** then may b the porn star idea but u should change ur thinking & go ahead and win life as descent people.
ull never feel guilt in ur life
my blessings
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Answer 10

tell her that she does not need to sell herself there are a lot of diseases out there and she could be a regular model whats so great bout bieng a porn star there isnt nuttin great bout it tell her to do what she thinks is best 4 her and have a serios talk with her and talk to your parents 2 bout it