i like him and we talk on the phone for hours but i can never tell him cuz i love how our friendship is going!!!!!!!! plz help!!
2006-07-21 09:55:36 · 10 answers · asked by Brianna V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey brianna,
this is brittany I'm new..but i can so answer this one bc i had to go through the same situation so here it goes.......when ever you talk on the phone to him...ask him this 1 important question tell him its out of curiosity..."hey we've been friends for awhile and well i like you more than a friend and i was wandering if you felt the same way about me..and if not then that's fine bc i want us to stay good friends"but if he does then say well you think we could ever be more than just friends?"but just promise me that if anything ever happens to us between are boyfriend girlfriend relationship...that will still be good friends like you guys used to be...but who knows it might turn out better being more that just friends..well i hope you take my advice believe me it works..well anymore questions about anything feel free to ask me!!!!,Brittany
2006-07-21 10:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by Blondie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you can't be right out and tell her because personally i believe it'll make things awkward. Girls don't forget what you tell them most of te time, so this will always be in the back of her head, and the chances are is she gets back with her ex it's not going to work out again so just be encouraging and bear with it. I think a good technique is if you're in the movie theater watching a movie you should ask her to hold your hand. Even though it's subtle it still means something, and puts something into her head about you. It can also mean a friend thing so it can go both ways :)
2016-03-27 02:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't tell him... you just go on being friends and keep admiring him and just be friends...
It might destroy your entire friendship if he doesnt feel the same way because then he might think everything you do is to get closer to him yadda yadda yadda... so yea....
I know its tough but just dont tell him
2006-07-21 09:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him cause no matter what it wont ruin your friendship. all guys like it when a girl tells him they like him. He will be happy even if he doesnt feel the same way about you. but i guarantee he will still be your friend. guys are like that.
2006-07-21 09:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by **musicman** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to say a word! My personal experience is it is most important for you to be best friends first anyway. Let him make the first move. He's talking to you for hours. Trust me, he enjoys your company too. Why rush?
2006-07-21 10:02:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to choose whether you don't want things to change or if you want more. Sounds like you do want more but don't want to lose him as a friend. My girlfriend and I were friends before we got together and now we are going out we are still best friends.
2006-07-21 09:58:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't you will ruin it, if he is interested he will let you know, given the right atmosphere....set the stage and let him do the talking....if he is already showing that must interest in you, chances are he feels the same way you do, but men like to feel in control, just let him descide if and when he wants to express anything to you about it.....
2006-07-21 10:01:02 · answer #7 · answered by ndussere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him. more than likely he feels the same way. and even so it wouldnt mess it up. i have the same thing going on and we are still friends
2006-07-21 09:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be suductive. make him want you. thats wat happened to my first boyfriend. but dont make it obvious where everyone can tell.
2006-07-21 10:00:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
blow him
2006-07-21 09:58:31 · answer #10 · answered by Smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋