Ok, say you've been with a girl for a while and your cheating on her with another girl but for only a couple months, and you know that she found out about the other girl, but she hasn't said anything, she's just all sad cuz you know she knows. Would you feel bad or would you just keep on doing what your doing?
2006-07-21 09:47:53 · 41 answers · asked by (¯`·._.·[•·.·´¯`·.·• Ariana 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont think yall are getting it. I'm the girl getting cheated on, but dont know if I should let him know I know
2006-07-21 09:58:38 · update #1
most guys would keep doing it........they have no mercy on you..been there done that....if he's cheating.....let that mofo know that you are not accepting it.....as long as you stay quiet he will keep it up babe....
2006-07-21 09:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you know for a fact, beyond a shadow of doubt that you are being cheated on, I would have my feels hurt very bad to say the least. And the person that I was with that was cheating on me would be gone. They could have the one they was with, cause if they was cheating on me, that would be telling me that they didn't give a crap about me or else they wouldn't have been with some one else to began with.
The favorite saying that I have heard so many times when some one gets caught with someone they shouldn't be with, has always been, "they didn't mean a thing to me." Well they might not have meant a thing to them but neither did I or else you wouldn't have cheated on me with them.
2006-07-21 10:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have cheated i nthe first place and well now your getting what you deserve, a mess. Shes not just sad because you know she knows that you cheated. Shes hurt that you cheated on her. If she really meant something to you then you wouldn't have had the desire to cheat on hewr in the first place. You should feel bad for what you did and learn from it, end one thing before starting another.
2006-07-21 09:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is always bad. Transparency always bears sweet fruits. Girls like to wear transparent clothes with lot of cheat schemes in the mind. That is not good for them not good for others. Doing some harmless practical joke is one thing and doing a purposeful cheating is another. I am one to be straight forward in life.
2006-07-21 09:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by rjbendre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just wouldn't cheat period. I have never understood cheating...period. Whats the point? Is the person getting a thrill by screwing around on their partner? I guess that would be the only reason. Why not just break it off and be with the other person? Cheating just doesn't make sense.
2006-07-21 09:52:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men feel bad, and we keep on going too. Here is a lesson you will thank me for till they lower your remains into a hole in the ground. Say what you feel, Mean what you say. And feel what you mean. We are dumb, ignorant, clueless, whatever word you ladies need to apply to us so that you will just speak your damn minds!!!! We are not mind readers. and we are smarter than dogs too! They assume you know what they did and act like you know. We assume if you knew what we did, you'd say something and if you don't say something, we assume you don't know, or that nothings bothering you. Women have a spine too, stand up and tell him you know about what he did and dump him! Why is this even a question? He did this and I didn't say anything................ There's your answer, you didn't say anything... Having testicles is so wonderful!!! :-)
2006-07-21 10:04:41 · answer #6 · answered by tmajik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel bad. She obviously cares alot about you because even though she knows about the other girl, she hasn't said anything because she doesn't want to loose you. I think you should treat her right and be faithful to her. And if you dont want to be with her anymore, break it off but don't disrespect her like that.
2006-07-21 09:53:12 · answer #7 · answered by nynerprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps one would BOTH feel bad and continue with what one is doing. Women are able to have one child a year. Men hundreds and nature programs men to go out and impregnate multiple women, while it programs women to seek out men who will help them during pregnancy and the early raising of their child. So men, NATURALLY "cheat" or at least lean towards more than one female partner.
2006-07-21 09:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by Taliesin7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stop because it is just not right. The girl must have a couple screws loose though not to say anything about her man cheating.
2006-07-21 09:50:53 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh....feel bad! Put yourself in her place. Either have the grace to break it off with her and stop breaking her heart, or break it off with the other girl and do right by your girlfriend. You already know the answer to this.
In light of the amended question, yes, let him know you know and get out. If he already know's that you know, you have nothing to lose do you. It's hard to think straight when you're in that position but eventually you will be better off to leave him.
2006-07-21 09:54:17 · answer #10 · answered by justme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Just all sad"? Is that what you are? "Just all sad". Why are you wasting your time with this guy? Do you enjoy making yourself feel miserable? If you enjoy feeling like a jerk and everyone around you also knows the situation do you really think they're feeling bad for you? Especially if you are aware of all of this?
Get rid of him for Christ's sake. Do yourself and your self-esteem a favor.
2006-07-21 09:51:10 · answer #11 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋