2006-07-21 09:27:13 · 13 answers · asked by ma_2st 2 in Pets ➔ Dogs
Her happy living here?I've taken her to the vet and had her shots and checked out,ibrought her home and groomed her with a tool to remove all the hair she is shedding,gave her a nice cool cold water shower,set food and water out for her,introduced her to the neighbor's mix Chow/Golden Retriver and the grandkids.... How long will it take b/4 i can remove her leese and feel at home with people who want to give her the love she deserves?
2006-07-21 09:34:11 · update #1
You have to give her time. No quick movements, that will scare her. Be sweet with her and pet her often. Talk to her in a soothing tone like you would a child. It may take a while, but animals don't forget things easily, and being that it is so young, you will want to remember that she acts that way in the future. If someones does hit her, she may attack, but she won't attack those who are kind.
2006-07-21 09:31:15 · answer #1 · answered by Wookie on Water 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I also had a dog who acted like she'd been abused. It takes time and patience but they are very resiliant animals and learn to trust people again if given the time and love. Don't baby your dog, it only reinforces timid behavior and breeds agression toward whatever it is afraid of. You need to remember that dogs are pack animals and you are the pack leader, you are the example for your dog to follow, and you should correct the dog if is is acting fearful or agressive because in dogs fear often leads to agression. If you still have trouble with your dog contact a professional trainer. I personally enjoyed watching the Dog Whisperer on the National Geographic channel.
Don't coddle the dog, it just reinforces the behavior, a few months of telling the dog exactly the behavior you expect should get results.
2006-07-21 16:47:18 · answer #2 · answered by April C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, your question didn't seem finished - but I wanted to mention this.
I got a golden retriever at 4 years old who was abused and neglected before we received her.
After time of being with you - usually they will start to feel more comfortable around you and the people you live with - and won't act as scared.
My dog ended up continuing the behavior of acting scared whenever you would point your finger (even if it wasn't toward her). Her eyes would close and she would sort of scrunch her eyes and nose like you were going to slap her. If your dog does this, just gently let her know it's okay, and pet her. After awhile, she'll understand that it's okay to trust you.
If after a year, she continues this behavior, I would bring her to a doctor and see what can be done to make her feel better.
Good luck! <3
2006-07-21 16:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by myotheremail108 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are wondering how to get her to not be afraid of you hurting her, it is going to take time and patience. You must be calm and quiet and don't make any aggressive moves around her.
This is a situation where you are going to have to be VERY committed and disciplined. Even if she is not potty trained, you are going to have to be VERY gentle with her.
I would get in touch with a puppy trainer. I think Petco has classes that are not too expensive. Explain the situation to them. You can also call the vet (she should defintely be checked out if you feel she has been abused, she may have internal injuries) You can call your local animal shelter or contact the ASPCA too.
The main thing to remember is to give her lots of love and affection, but don't let that translate into just spoiling her.
Doesn't it just make you sick that someone would abuse an animal?
Good luck with her!
2006-07-21 16:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by Sadie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can. All behavior issues can be adjusted with a golden in the first 5 years. She is going to need a lot of reassurance from you. And you will have to find a way to discipline without raising your voice too loud or hitting her in order to earn her trust. I took in an abused dog at 1 1/2 years old and it took a few months but it was worth it. He has been my companion for 7 years now.
2006-07-21 16:34:17 · answer #5 · answered by Tracie G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once was given a lab puppy that was abused. Ended up being the sweetest, most loyal dog I have EVER owned.
Give her time, be gentle and remember that fast movements and certain motions (raising your hand above her for example) will make her nervous and scared.
Oh- and lots of praise. All dogs love praise. It will help her be less afraid.
2006-07-21 16:36:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know a lot about dogs but I may be able to help. If your dog just started to act like that maybe you should treat it differently. If it always acted that way and you got it from shelter or another person it may have been abused in father back. Give it a lot of attention. Maybe its shy!
2006-07-21 16:33:49 · answer #7 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My chi was abused before i got him. It takes a long time. It will start gettin use to playing with you and trusting you within a few months. Mine just fully broke his scared habit of other people, and ive had him for 10 months. Just show her a lot of love and she will come around when the time is right.
2006-07-21 16:44:10 · answer #8 · answered by PinkFloMo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some pups/dogs act like that and have never been touched!! This is usually caused from either not being properly socialized as a young pup, or the pup is very submissive.
You will need to take it to puppy classed to help him gain confidence..But he will most likely always be like that to some degree..
2006-07-21 16:31:29 · answer #9 · answered by Mommadog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a plus that she's young.With constant love and attention,she will learn to trust you.Never scold her for anything.Train her instead.There are puppy kindergardens that are affordable at your local pet store.Good Luck.
2006-07-21 16:33:55 · answer #10 · answered by Cheese 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋