My boyfriend and I've been dating for 2 months now and he wants to start making out, and we've been holding hands, and hugging, but that's it. What should I do?
2006-07-21 09:25:36 · 13 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You take your time. You will grow up soon enough. If it makes you feel uncomfortable, he may not be the one for you. Taking things to the next step should be something you both want to do. Do not let him pressure you into anything you do not want to do. Good Luck!
2006-07-21 09:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by icemountian8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi dear,
You seem like a sweet girl so let me assure u that making out or having sex with someone could be the most natural thing in the world, but only if the person in question is most special to u...! i can tell that he is probably not (sorry Dude!) cause usually there is no holding back with someone special... but this is your decision and only u can decide! Nevertheless, life is short and if u are comfortable u might not regret do it! ;)
2006-07-21 16:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by Evan R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you think is best; however, be prepared for the typical reaction, rejection. Guys love the challenge of getting the girl, but once you surrender, they lose interest. I had a male fried to tell me this about the chase and said once he gets the girl he doesn't want her anymore.
The best way to keep him, is to now act all crazy afterwards like you own him.
2006-07-21 16:42:17 · answer #3 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do only what you are comfortable doing...if you are not ready for making out, DO NOT DO IT. It's that simple...don't jump into something you know you are not prepared for emotionally, or if you are not sure you like this guy enough to do those kinds of things with him...
Take things at your pace...if he's worth being with he'll understand...if he pressures you, cut him loose...he's not worth it because he'd be caring about his own satisfaction more than that you are comfortable with how things are going...
Good luck!
2006-07-21 16:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, wait until you feel completely comfortable. Don't do anything you will regret later. Think about how long you could see yourself staying with this guy, andbe sure to tell him what you are feeling. If he doesn't respect you, then u can def. find a better guy who will respect your wishes.
ps. If u do decide to make out with him, and u are scared about it, its really not scary. Just pretend like you know what you are doing, and he will think that you really do. Good luck!!
2006-07-21 16:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by katie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do ne thing that you are not comfortable with. just tell him that you are not ready for that if that's how u fell. if u want to make out w/ him then make out w/ him just dont get too carried away. good luck i hope ur relationship can last. have a good weekend
2006-07-21 16:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by lexie_09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like him and u wanna go to the next step cause ur comfortable wit it go head, if not dont if he really likes u he'll wait but u cant b 2 boring haha jk
2006-07-21 16:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel comfortable?... If the answer is no you can wait
There are plenty of boys who will want to be with you if this guy cant wait.
2006-07-21 16:28:01 · answer #8 · answered by PG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the choice is realley up to you if you feel comfrontable where your at and your still geting to know eatch other take the time ask your boy friend how he feels commune cate to gather
2006-07-21 16:28:17 · answer #9 · answered by spyhurter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it if you feel uncomfortable. If he loves you enough, he'll go at the pace you feel comfortable at!
2006-07-21 16:30:35 · answer #10 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋