to like your best friend even if she isn't gay
2006-07-21 09:20:58 · 53 answers · asked by lil' Taurasi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is hard to control who you are attracted to, but since you know she isn't gay, you shouldn't ever act on your feelings. If you do, you most likely won't have a bestfriend anymore.
2006-07-21 09:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, not at all, we don't choose who we are attracted to, there is nothing wrong, provided you don't try to push the issue, which in my experience with my Gay family members and friends, isn't very likely. Just wait, you'll find the love of your life. Good luck honey and remember there is someone for everyone.
2006-07-21 09:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by Daydream Believer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are lesbian and you like your best friend but she isn't gay? Well I think your stuck in a problem! For you it's not wrong....but for her it might be.
2006-07-21 09:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong you may not get anything out if it but maybe you can turn her to your side ha ha women do that to gay men all the time why not for woman you can be the first on to do that be an innovator and turn your friend gay and be HAPPY lol
2006-07-21 09:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by captspankey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong! but it will be hard for u to get her into bed ;-) well i actually dont understand why some people still think its wrong ur gay...u cant change ur feelings...and i would never think it is wrong!! everyone who says something else is stupid! its not to us, to judge others because of their sexuality...well but u shouldnt push her either if u know she isnt gay u wont have any chances anyway...good luck though
2006-07-21 09:33:16 · answer #5 · answered by simi1808 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I did like my best friend. I ended up telling her, and we moved on. It was a little akward at first, but we got over it. Dont worry about it.
2006-07-21 09:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by aryannmay7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong channel, honey--read the majority of the answers. You aren't even old enough to know who you are, let alone what you are. What's the big rush to screw up your life??
2006-07-21 09:25:33 · answer #7 · answered by NANCY K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isnt wrong. but if she is uncomfortable with it, then u shouldnt hit on her or watnot. she ur best friend, best friends stick with each other to the end. it aint wrong to like her, but if she dont go that way it would be wrong to hit on her.
just rememeber, she ur best friend. she will be by u.
2006-07-21 09:24:56 · answer #8 · answered by BlAcKhEaRt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how could it be wrong to like your best friend???? it would be sexist or something if you didnt like her cause shes not gay...
2006-07-25 03:15:19 · answer #9 · answered by fordstrong4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong, but it would be inappropriate to pursue her if she is not interested in you that way. You can find sex almost anywhere. Good friends are hard to find.
2006-07-21 09:24:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋