My bf told some girls online that they were hot, but it was only after they had said it to him first because he had a blog with a hot pic of himself. Do i have a right to be mad? He wasnt hollerin at them or tryin anything, most of them were just like "Thanks your not bad yourself", or "thanks, you dont need me to tell you your hot too"
2006-07-21 09:16:51 · 22 answers · asked by ~*KB*~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Complimenting always makes someone feel better about themselves and thats probably why he is doing it. The other girls are making his ego bigger and wants to thank them for that. We can tell our men all the time that we think they look good but we are with that person so its really nothing to them, but if someone outside the relationship compliments him then he realizes it must be true what we have been telling them, and it makes them feel better about themselves. Yes, I would probably be a little upset but wouldnt make a big deal about it unless I see further emails or them talking on the side about other things.
2006-07-21 09:21:53 · answer #1 · answered by littlemama025 2 · 23⤊ 5⤋
As a woman to another woman, I could understand why you would become so hot-headed if other women were scoping out your man, him responding to their comments makes you question his loyalty to you. Remember, they wouldn't have had the opportunity to comment on his blog with his "hot pic" had he not posted his pic up for the world to see in the first place. If he wants to post a pic of himself in a blog, be ready to hear about the feedback and the compliments women and/or men will be leaving for him.
Ask yourself would it have been different if he didn't respond to their comments or are you just upset at the idea and his purpose for posting up this "hot pic"? Get down to the nitty-gritty with your man, and ask him what his intenetions are for posting his pic. You always gotta ask questions in times of doubt. If he is doing it just to put a face to his blog, then appreciate the fact that women find your man attractive, but if he's doing it to "fish" for compliments and to meet other women, I don't think the guy is worth your time. I hope you don't need someone to tell you what to do if that's the case...you never want to invest your feelings and time on someone who is investing their time and feelings on others.
Best wishes.
2006-07-21 09:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by Trixi Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your bf likes other women's attention. If he cares for you, why does he need all of these other girls telling him he's hot? And why send a picture for them to even see him? I'd be mad as crap if mine done that. You have every right in the world to mad at him. All this will lead too is him trying to get more attention than he already is. If he respects you, he will get over himself.....
2006-07-21 09:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be upset but we do it too. We as females think that other men are hot. It's only natural. I feel like they're going to do whatever they want to do. He just needs to make sure that he never does that in your presence. Now if he did that, I would definitely go off on his ***. You have nothing to worry about because I'm sure you don't only find him attractive and if you do, then you're a good one because I love my man and I wouldn't trade him for anything but it's some fine guys everywhere. I've learned to look and try not to touch. lol
good luck and don't worry about it...
2006-07-21 09:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by Brownie_baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This pisses me off girls say all the time he's cute and wow look at his 6 pack and guys can't compliment a girl! Get your facts straight ladies if you don't like it then don't do it a druh druh and whta just cause they have you they can't compliment other people if a girl ask how do i look is he supposed to say ugly? i'm not saying they can't say good but still c'mon!
2006-07-21 09:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by DJ Vendetta 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll put it simple for u... If u know he woudn't in your face say to a girl that "your hot", then its no different on a computer... If he talkin to other chick on the net, chances are then he doin it in person behind your back (I know from experience)
2006-07-21 09:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by Lil' Mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell, their pros call and tell me that each body the time! a minimum of i imagine they do. I failed Spanish in severe college, so for all i comprehend they're accusing me of hiding El Cupacabra in my basement. Which i'm. warm goat demon sex, mmm.
2016-10-15 01:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by debbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...my husband tells other women they look good all the time...he even addresses some of them like "hey, sexy" or something similar to....lighten up
2006-07-21 09:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't overreact, he was just trying to be polite. Guys hate it when their girls are too jealous.
2006-07-21 09:20:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares?? You little myspace teenyboppers are everywhere. Ur hot ur not what does it really matter.
2006-07-21 09:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
turn your computer off for three days and read a good book. You've gotten jaded.
2006-07-21 09:21:14 · answer #11 · answered by dimbulb52 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋