My bf has a hard time showing affection which is a must for me to have.. He gives me all these excuses like he is too tired..Does it really wear someone out to hug and kiss on the person they so called loved?
2006-07-21 09:14:29 · 5 answers · asked by freakegirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it does. You have to keep the fires burning some other way. I for one hate kissing but my gf loves it. The best way to deal with it is don't pressure him. If he cares anything for you he'll eventually make out with you. He most likely knows already, too.
2006-07-21 09:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by zetser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Test him. See if he will go to the edge to be with you. Like do 2 tests to see what he does. Test #1. Tell him that their is something that he likes and something that you like going on this weekend. Tell him that you want to go to your event really really badly. If he chooses his event, he fails test 1. Test 2. Take a really pretty girl that you know that will cooperate, and have her say that she likes ur guy and wants to take him back to her house. If you looks at her in a way that isn't appropriate, and says no, he fails. If he goes he fails. If he says," No, I have a girlfriend," that isn't good enough. If he says that he has a girlfriend and he loves her, etc. your good. If he fails both he's gone. I he fails one and aces the other, make a tiebreaker test. Idf he passes both tell him you love him and give him a hug. 0:-)!!!!! Hope I helped you. Take my advice!!!!
2006-07-21 09:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by Fook Yu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the answer is yes i really am in love with you ,our schedules are very different you work 3 days a week and i work 6 long days when i get home a am physically and mentally exausted, i dont mean to be that way it just happens sometimes,i still love you
2006-07-21 16:24:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you love someone you want to be loveable with them. I can understand being tired every great once in awhile, but... If this happens again, I would have a talk with him about splitting up for awhile to see how it works out.
2006-07-21 09:18:40 · answer #4 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are just more shy about it. but talk to him about it. tell him you want him to show it more, for both your sakes.
2006-07-21 09:17:44 · answer #5 · answered by R-Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋