My boyfriend said since he was a little boy his mother has always showed more attention to his sisters than him. He says he has never ever had time alone to establish a relationship with her. He said when they do talk to each other at always ends up in a heated arguement. He does admit when he in his teens he was rebellious but now that he is in his mid 30's he has gotten past that stage in his life. However, his mother keeps on reminding him about the past. I have watched him and his mother interact and usually she has an irriated look on her face and sounds condscending. I told him maybe it has something to do with the fact that she had him when she was a teenager. Yesterday he found out from one of his sisters that he was not in her will but his 3 sisters were, he was so hurt. So now he said he will just leave his mother alone.
2006-07-21 09:13:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She may be feeling like he ruined her life, or that he a reminder of what happened to her as a teenager. Which is not his fault at all. Sometimes talking to people will not get, maybe he could write a letter to her detailing his feelings and then leaving well enough alone, make sure he explains why he rebelled and that fact that he understands they practically "grew up" together so having a mother/son relationship has not happened and that he wants that to happen. Don't worry about the Will, if she's ever on her death bed she have to come to terms with her actions.
Yes, to answer your other question, my Mom (to me) treated my nieces better than me. I was raised by my grandmother (which was no picnic in the park either) but once she(my mom) got older and needed me, she apologized and realized how difficult she had made life for something that was not my fault. Good luck and take care.
2006-07-21 09:27:24 · answer #1 · answered by Barbie doll lover 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It happens all the time, unfortunately. My younger brother has always been the favorite. You get used to it after a while.
2006-07-21 16:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by Not done with love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I knew about it my whole life. My older brother got everything new. when he was done with it I got it . Never got new cloths until I got a job for myself. So I do not talk with any of them .
2006-07-21 16:18:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she has a problem with men, all men, not just him. She's never going to change, so he needs to learn to move on.
2006-07-21 16:22:04 · answer #4 · answered by Tina T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋