i have to choose between being true to the one i care about or being true to my heart(the one im in love with)
2006-07-21 09:01:52 · 4 answers · asked by .... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Follow your heart. The one you care about but don't love will get over it. Just be honest with both and above all yourself.
2006-07-21 09:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. if u betray ur heart..eventually it will wear u down. now or later, it is inevitable. going against how u feel by forcing yourself to do something mentally is NOT good for you, the person ur with, or your health! for example, i tried to force myself to help out my family in another city, so i had to live there for awhile with my uncle and aunt. i had no social contact w/ people my age, and i was really...sad. and lonely. eventually i couldn't stand it and i was SO depressed that i burst out crying at the littlest thing... so my mom told me to come home. even tho i had right intentions in my mind to help them, and i was forcing myself to live there, but my heart and emotions were just getting a beat down from the stress and sadness!!! even if i had been able to sweat it out longer, i'm sure my uncle wouldn't have wanted me to be even more depressed...if that person cares about you, they woulnd't expect u to do any more than follow your heart. that's why that saying goes, "if you love them let them go, and if they come back they're yours." if you love SOMEONE ELSE, the guy ur with shouldn't expect u to stay or call it betrayal. if he loved u, he would let u go, to let u be happy.
2006-07-21 16:09:34 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know what I say u r the only one that can take care of your heart b/c not 2 many ppl will. Luck!
2006-07-21 16:06:43 · answer #3 · answered by purple_dogs_bed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always be true to your heart
2006-07-21 16:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by plastik_persephone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋