I personally don't mind about how much sex my partner has had, but I wonder if it's different for men? How would you feel about a woman having had a lot of partners - say more than 30 or 40? Would you be pleased that she was obviously sexual experienced and had a high sex drive? Or would you be scared off?
2006-07-21 08:40:27 · 16 answers · asked by trixie firecracker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that the key here is NOT to judge someone based on a number. Thats really not fair to a person. I know at the age that I am (35), I dont even consider asking women how many men they have been with. Thats a question that bears no relevance on who she is and if she will love me the way that I want to be loved.
2006-07-21 08:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 7⤊ 2⤋
Depends on how old the woman is .. 30-40 seems just fine to me ... if you're older and mature.
If you tell me you've been with 30-40 guys and your @ss is still in school or can't even rent a car then I would consider that too many .. !
I personally don't care what people think .. the only person that it should matter to is the next person sleeping with you ... !
2006-07-21 15:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a man, 30 - 40 is too high score for a women to have. Men may term her as 'nymphomaniac', but, on the contrary, if a man had 30-40 close encounters, he is termed a playboy & in men's locker room its discussed with pride, even though 90% of them are just bluffing.
2006-07-21 15:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by Vicky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she is clean, healthy and great in bed it doesn't matter. For many men that may be different. Uninhibited exploration with that particular partner may be easier than someone with less experience. I have had both in my past... The experienced one with more partners was much more exciting and easier to get a long with.
2006-07-21 15:46:18 · answer #4 · answered by trainop2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would be scared off.
Damn! 30 or 40.
2006-07-21 15:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by Deejay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't neccessarily mean that a person who had a lot of intercourses with different people has experience. Sometimes it could be that most of them were only a night stands. I wouldn't care myself about the number of girls someone has been with but the way he/she treated their previous experiences. Also how he/she treats me :)
2006-07-21 17:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by Psychologist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
30-40 = Total whore. Sure I'd use her for sex, but I would be looking for something less used.
2006-07-21 15:43:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as the chick has been smart, used protection and has been at least a little picky about who she lets slide it in, it doesn't matter to me one bit. If she is sucking d**ks for crack, banging disgusting scumbag dudes, she is not for me. I would consider letting my Boston Terrier hit it though, I'm sure he'd appreciate getting a little 'cat.'
2006-07-21 15:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by baddogz28 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wouldnt matter to me personally, as long as she could show me that she loved me and me alone while in a relationship with me. I have had many more than that in my life and I know how to be faithful. Unfortunately I just ran into women that werent marriage material for me, but we had sex.
2006-07-21 15:46:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
such a double standard regarding the answers - who do you think the men are screwing? the same woman over and over again?!
2006-07-21 15:46:27 · answer #10 · answered by cindyspiderucla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋