If u want to know if he's cheatin on u....
1. Don't ask (its not like they will be honest anyway, espically if u been together for awhile and u know he loves u)
2. If u do ask, and he gets all defensive about it, its usually a sign of guilt.
3. He questions u about where u going, who are u with, what are u doin today... blah, blah, and so on... Its not because he's so concerned about where u really are... he just don't want to run into u while he's out doin dirt..
4. If u know u have been faithful... and he constantly accuses u of cheatin', lyin', going out and comin home late, askin u why are u wearin that.... Because he's so wrapped up in doin his dirt in the back of his mind he secretly thinks u r doin the same...
5. U find letters from other females, new numbers in his phone listed as guy names and u know he doesn't have a friend by that name.... ( do u're own private investigation without him knowing... try breaking the password to his e-mail or myspace account.. when he's not home go by and snoop threw his room, drawers, under the bed, closet, etc.. If he leaves his cell phone around and he's not around... go thorugh his texts, suspicious numbers, etc..)
6. If he always seems to want to hang with the boys all of a sudden, all the time...
7. Changes in his rutine
8. (Do another private investigation) If his familiar with your car, rent a car or ride in your home girls car and secretly follow him..
9. Wants to look good all of a sudden buys new outfits, changes his perfume, gets haircuts all the time... But everytime u see him he wears the same lookin clothes, and not the outfits he bought at the mall with u
10. If u need more information go to www.bet.com, click on dating, then click on "how to spot a cheater"
Good luck, hope everything works out the best for u
2006-07-21 09:09:52
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answered by Lil' Mama 1
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Make something up; this usually works. Tell him that someone saw him with another female and that they were very close (don't let him know who told you or when, I am assuming that you both must have some mutual friends). Anyway, be persistent and be sad, you want to know what the hell is going on and you want answers if he wants to salvage the relationship because you heard this from a very reliable source, he should be a man and admit his faults. You can try that, it works more than you would think because they guy (or gal) really thinks they are busted and there is no way out except to admit it and hopefully save face.
2006-07-21 08:47:05
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answered by deepthinker 2
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I'M A sexually active STRAIGHT GUY. I know what I'm talkin about, most of the answers you'll get are quotes from sex and the city. ASK HIM IF HE WANTS YOU TO DO ANYTHING DIFFERENTLY, ASK HIM WHAT YOU THIK BOUT COUPLES HAVIN AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP. CONFESS TO DOIN SOMETHIN SILLY/STUPID AND CRY BOUT IT (a little), say how guilty you felt and say 'I don't deserve you, I kept secrets from you, I'm awful' Hug, dry your eyes, fall asleep on his chest. at worst he'll never cheat again this year (a tiger never changes his stripes, but a snake sheds skin often)
2006-07-21 08:48:19
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answered by aiden817683 1
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well girl ask him. and if he love you he will tell you truth. and if you think he would do this to you should most likely just get ride of him. he not worth your time. you should have the best guy that is out there. there out there. someone that will treat you nice and love you for you. and that will not cheat on you. but girl don't put your shelf threw this just ask hI'm your just hurting your self in the end. if you need to talk im here god bless. hi_c_boy@yahoo.com
2006-07-21 08:46:57
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answer #4
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answered by Chris Bell 2
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pricey pal, i'm truly sorry for the shortcoming of your mum and dad, or perhaps although many people may say it yet no plausible surely experience the way you've gotten felt and are feeling now. concerning your question, enable me get this immediately as you probably did not said it somewhat extra component, you stated he fell in love with his instructor, so this signifies that you both are nonetheless in college or college. Did he like proposed to his instructor and she or he in many situations going on and they at the prompt are surely BF-GF sorts. because if he did not proposed or advised her about how he feels for her, then its no longer a courting and he only may have somewhat weigh down on her which boys his age have on older matured women a lifeless ringer for some females have on man or woman college exceeded boys. So if he's having somewhat weigh down on her then you honestly might want to communicate with him, and help him get well from it, as that courting will under no circumstances artwork out, she will have the capacity to no longer settle for this. and under no circumstances imagine of ending your existence, this can be a loopy theory. Its your existence, it does no longer remember on some stupid boy who does no longer even comprehend what he opt to be after he bypass out of faculty, or what he will do with his destiny, all he cares about that he will ask his day for a motorbike and he will roam round city with his friends and bypass see that action picture or purchase that watch, or placed on a dogs tag like he changed into in American military, he does no longer even comprehend how demanding he may might want to artwork to even get a motorbike on installments. cool down, take a deep breath, you're a woman yet you aren't to any extent further week, and also you don’t favor approval or appreciation from all of us to stay NO, its your existence lady bypass savour it, finished your analyze, get a tremendous activity and stay your existence.
2016-10-15 01:28:41
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answer #5
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answered by debbie 4
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Believe me u wont kno. Unless he wants to just hang out with the guys more than the usual.
2006-07-21 08:43:25
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answered by Anonymous
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hire a chick he doesnt know to pretend she wants to ****
is he goes for it hes a cheater.
also make up amyspace account and pretend your a hot chick
and if he bites hes guilty.
99% of guys cheat its a proven fact
hes probally balls deep right now.
werd.
2006-07-21 08:42:28
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answered by king kong 2
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He probably is if u feel that way. But there is no way to actually know. If he is it will come to light. But don't drive urself crazy with ur imagination
2006-07-21 08:42:04
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answer #8
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answered by BrownMorristown 2
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do you think your man is cheating on you then thats how you know if you want you tell me where he stays and his name and i'll watch him for ya lol
2006-07-21 08:41:33
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answered by AC 1
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if its not as good as it used to be,,,,,or he comes home later than usual from work...makes excuses to get out of the house
2006-07-21 08:43:12
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answered by nas88car300 7
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