I am in a commited relationship with my girl friend, but we have decided that we'll not have penetravtive sex before marriage.
I play with her breasts and occassionally finger her, which she really seems to like. I manage to please her.
Mostly I end up masturbating alone at Climax.
I would like to know, what are the ways in which I can get my share of the pleasure...
What are the things she could do for me (or I can ask her for)...
Girls , Guys... Your views / suggestions are welcome.
Thanks !
2006-07-21 08:35:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She can masturbate you...or she can perform oral sex on you (and you her also)...none of that requires penetration but think about the reason you two have decided not to have intercourse...
You're current having sexual interaction...what you are doing now is no more or less morally wrong than if you include penetration...
Do what is right for the two of you...but make sure your reasons make sense...
2006-07-21 08:40:24 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You ever asked her to give you head. She has to realize that you have need as well and I know some women get alot of pleasure from being fingered if done right, she get pleasure by you and you get to jack yourself off in your room. Dont be afraid when you ask her or she wont do it. And if she says no the first time. Dont quit and dont get mad becaue you just opened the book. Keep on going through the pages and eventually you story will be one filled with you getting head all the time. Good luck!
2006-07-21 08:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by Karl J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try hand jobs, you might want to titty ****. She might considered oral sex, penetration, so probably not an option. Also dry humping is an idea. Sex toys always fun, go with clitoris toys so there wont be any penetration. There are sex games you can buy with ideas.
In the words of Marvin Gaye: There's nothing wrong with me Loving you And giving yourself to me can never be wrong If the love is true.
2006-07-21 08:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by alicia c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her for oral sex or she coukd do the masturbating for you. Maybe you could have sex but not the penetrative kind but where you rub your dick in between her legs by her vagina just make sure that you wear protection because of the sperm in the precum.
2006-07-21 08:40:55 · answer #4 · answered by brown eyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to make ur feelings known to her.
If you feel you can't wait to get married b4 having sex or you want her to do somethings to you, all you have to do is tell her.
Nothing makes a relationship work than communication between partners.
2006-07-21 08:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by Deejay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to use the magic in her tongue with your penis, or ask her to let you rub your penis in her cli toris(with out penetration), or performe the 69, or tell her to do hand jobs on you. Basically you got 3 tools: your fingers, your penis, your mouth, she has 4: her breast, her mouth, her cli t, her hands. Find ways for these tools to interact, into ways that best fit both of you.
2006-07-21 08:47:59 · answer #6 · answered by stud989 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At least have her jerk you off... Why would you do it yourself when she is there? If you want to get a little dirtier without sticking it in, buy a vibrator and use it on her (you should be able to bring her to climax through clitoral stimulation without inserting it into her.)
2006-07-21 08:40:07 · answer #7 · answered by baddogz28 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I would think the best way would be to ask her to give you head (Suck on your penis) or a hand job, (jack you off) or you could grind yourself against her, without going inside her, and get off that way...
2006-07-21 08:40:36 · answer #8 · answered by Beckwith 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) Oral sex?
2) Jerk off and come in her face.
3) She should give you a hand job.
2006-07-21 08:38:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you guys tried oral sex? Or maybe you can have her masturbate you while you are fingering her? Spice it up alittle! Good luck
2006-07-21 08:40:53 · answer #10 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋