when your sister loves to say your fat(which you are) how do u deal?

Answer 1

Tell her she has many things wrong with her 2 and its very sicking that she needs to tourment you since she has low self esteem, I'm sure you r a very lovely person!

Answer 2

My sister would scream down the block that i was a fat *** in front of all my friends, so i know how you feel. Don't let her get to you! It sucks, i know. Chances are you are fluffy and not fat, so instead of dealing with her scuzz, next time she says that, say "Well, at least I'm not a b*tch like you!" And only lose weight for yourself! A few good tip if youre interested: cut down on salt- it make you hold water. When you go into a parking lot, park further away so you will have to walk further to get into the store. Spend time weeding in the garden. Never eat a meal after 6pm- water's ok, but stay away from sugar filled pops and juices, which will turn into calories that sit in you. If you are still feeling down about it, it helps to talk to people and if you have no one to talk to about it, feel free to pitch me an email. But don't let your sister make you feel that way. She has faults too.

Answer 3

it depends do you feel comfortable with your size? do you get embaressed? upset .angry? your sister may just be doing this to push you into a situation. where she will get a reaction she wants from you..if shes not then theres only one other reason. depending on your size if you are largely over weight she may be pushing you to the limits where you say what the heck ok im fat ill lose weight..if this is the case then unbeknown to you shes probabily thinking its for the best for your health. there maybe different reasons why. until you know how you feel in your self. and why she is saying this. then you will be able to figure it out and take to the next step to what are you going to do about it.

Answer 4

I went from 135 lbs to 220 lbs and know what it is like to be called fat. It bothered me at first until I realised that it was only my attitude that was the problem. Now I just laugh and don't take myself so serious. I even managed to lose 35 lbs and still a bit heavier than I care to be, but the fat comments don't affect me at all anymore. Lighten up on yourself and enjoy being who you are.

Answer 5

Mine just lost some weight by living on string cheese. She was hospitalized 3 times for gall bladder issues b/c of it. She gave me a bunch of her cast-off clothing b/c it was "so massive" on her, i.e. I'm apparently a massive FREAK. I do however, have fabulous breasts, while hers look like sad, little deflated balloons just resting on her rib cage. I just talk about my breasts and their obvious greatness (they're legendary) and she tries talking about getting implants like I'd be jealous of getting surgery and my husband usually chimes in that the real thing is better than plastic. She usually scurries off into her corner after that. Another way I deal is by looking fabulous. Her youthful softness in her face is gone and she looks harsh. (Famous French film star Catherine Deneuvre made a comment about how once you reach a certain age, you can have a nice a$$ or a nice face b/c your face needs some fat to look youthful. I chose my face b/c once I hit a certain age, nobody's going to care about my a$$ if I look like the Crypt Keeper) I'm 5 years older and look 10 years younger. I also tell her she can bite me, but that she'd never consume more calories than what's in string cheese so she can't.

Answer 6

Take it from someone who was thin and gained alot of weight what makes you a person is not really what you look like it is how you are and always remember that some people feel better about themselves when they put you down for health reasons just try and do the best you can and hell with the rest always be who you are and not what you look like I was happy thin and Chubby

Answer 7

You don't actually for one have to believe that your fat. Regardless of what weight that you are. You don't have to listen to what your sister says about you. It should be about what's on the inside and not on the out. How do you want to deal with it? If she said that to me I would be smart and sarcastic and would say something like thanks I know or so what or and what are you skinny and if you telling me that I am fat dose that make you feel good telling me that I am, do you feel better about yourself to make funny of me? You could say if I am fat what are you, what you says bounces off of me and sticks on to you like glue.

Answer 8

Maybe you should talk to her, let her know these comments hurt your feelings. It doesn't matter what weight you are, your sister should have better sense than to make hurtful comments. She's not being helpful by saying those words regardless of her intentions.

Answer 9

No ones perfect so I know she has her faults with her looks. Tell her back. Find something about her and tell her. And if your chubby go for walks and eat small portion meals! I'm sure you can do it. But don't let her put your self esteem down. Keep your head up! I bet your much prettier than her anyways!

Answer 10

Prove her wrong.
Turn her ridicule into your motivation.

Don't eat any fried or fatty foods
Eat lots of greens
Don't eat anything after 7:30 PM
Drink lots of water
Get moving. Walk at the mall. or better yet, start running, it gives you a high.
Don't reward yourself by eating more.

Answer 11

Give least preference to your outer appearance.
Feel proud about your innerself. Your good character is the only thing that is going to make an impression in other's hearts.