im really interested an in a ffm 3 way with my bf. we love each other very much and are simply looking to expand our horizons. anyone try this before or interested in trying?
2006-07-21 08:10:46 · 29 answers · asked by aly j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't see anything wrong with that u go girl get your freak on!!!!
2006-07-21 08:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by Pisces chik 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Are you in *any* sort of way a jeallous person?
If you can be I wouldn't even bother. It will destroy your relationship.
And i'd also be careful in choosing a partner, you don't want someone either of you are close to, it's also another potential for problems.
I've done it twice before, but not a FFM one. It's kind of overrated in my opinion, but it's an experience.
2006-07-21 08:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me just start by saying you will be opening a huge can of worms. I was involved in a FFFM foursome once. . . I guess you could call it a menage a trois. . . quad te mo? Anyhow. . . I was seeing this girl and she was a lot more serious about us than I was. We went out of town to see her younger sister at college. Well. . . we ended up playing a drinking game in her sister's dorm room with her sister's room mate as well. One thing led to another and out of the blue we ended up all getting naked and having sex. I have to admit it was TOTALLY AWESOME!!! I had nine holes to fill and filled every last one. I swear to God I was so horned up I could have derailed a train with my magic wand! Anyhow the girl I was kind of seeing got jealous afterwards and things got kind of messed up. I was actually looking for an out of our semi relatioship and used this incident as just that. I told her I couldn't see her since I had sex with her sister as well. It ended up being a good way out and I still had sex with her now and then for a few years afterwards. I also had a couple threesomes with her sister and roomate behind her back a couple of times. Anyhow. . . the important thing is I didn't really care a whole lot for any of them and it was just sex. Amazing sex at that but just sex! I am now with the woman of my dreams however. . my soulmate. . . and one on one sex with her is better than that foursome ever could have been. . . . seriously. If you really love your man and have a good thing going. . . I would strongly caution you about bringing anyone else into your sex life. How will you feel if he is enjoying another girl more than you? How will you feel if you have a threesome and then one day you come home and he is banging the girl you had the threesome with. . without you? You will be creating a huge gray area by bringing others into your bedroom. He may think it is great that you want another girl involved. . . but how will he feel if you say you want another man involved. . MMF? How will he feel about seeing you get banged by another guy? How will he feel if he sees you enjoying the other guy more than you enjoy him? I'm not saying it can't be done without too much future emotional damage but it is very rare indeed. If you do decide to do it I think it is best with a stranger that you will not see everyday or again at all. Maybe go out of town to do it. However. . . by using a stranger you are also increasing the risk that you might catch something as well. If you have a great relationship with your boyfriend is it worth risking for some kinky sex? You know you can do plenty of crazy kinky things with just your boyfriend! To each their own I guess but just think things out a bit before making that decision. Good Luck.
2006-07-21 08:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not for me...I imagine it could be very difficult to hold even a healthy relationship together after introducing a third person into your intimate relationship. Please think this through very carefully before taking it beyond the level of fantasy. Are you both confident enough not to start having doubts about whether your partner would rather be with/enjoys sex more with/is more attracted to the third person? These types of thoughts would be hard to ignore.
Good luck!
2006-07-21 08:15:05 · answer #4 · answered by shawnabobonna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have before would love to do it again, its tons of fun, but becareful it could ruin a relationship if not talked about before hand alot. Jealousy most of the time comes into play with threesomes, which tends to create alot of problems.
ffm is always good wholesome fun. and after that, if your bf is up for it mmf is sooo pleasurable for you.
2006-07-21 08:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some dudes are so uncertain of their sexuality they difficulty they could finally end up svcking each and every others c0cks. Aint no longer some thing incorrect with a woman wanting to be a grimy little cuum dumpster on party, in certainty, it fairly is between the perfect issues in existence.
2016-11-25 00:30:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'd say go for it... But than again he's your boyfriend... Although I can see you really don't mind seeing him kissing another girl... From the looks of it, this could happen... But from this point it's up to your boyfriend... And for some reason I can see him agreeing on it...
2006-07-21 08:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by keau 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me it will probably end badly if you try this.Both of you will probably continue to wonder wheather the other is still seeind the third wheel.
2006-07-21 08:14:23 · answer #8 · answered by Frances 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you do that? It will only complicate your relationship w b/f. Just rent a porn or something normal like that. No I'm not interested.
2006-07-21 08:13:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just asked on how will a guy feel if their lady asked them for a treesum ,i got lots of replys on that topic,well i will like to have a threesum someday but my man doesnt oh well
2006-07-21 08:15:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great way to double the heartbreak
2006-07-21 08:14:01 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋