At this point in my life it seems everything is going wrong. It is as if my whole world is upside down. My b/f and I are separating, my loan for school has not been approved, cannot get boarding on campus.... What else could go wrong?
2006-07-21 08:05:21 · 11 answers · asked by joebaby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so you dont have to be depressed for a long time, and its a test from God so pass it dont flunk. he only gives you as much as he thinks you can handle you can do it
2006-07-21 08:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by Kim 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never say 'What else could go wrong?" because for some odd reason, those words always jinx the person who says it. Bad things happen, but it's all a part of life. I'm going through a rut too, my tuition went up, not enough money for a full term, didn't get a grant I qualified for, Mom's causing problems between my bf and I, etc. Just keep in mind that life is a roller coaster. It will have its up's and down's. And as soon as you make it through this downer, you'll be going back uphill again, and will feel much better.
2006-07-21 08:11:28 · answer #2 · answered by Maico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something that we all experience and some more than others. I want you to listen carefully because this is how you get through it.
First of all it's called a storm,and like a storm it will pass. But even if you believe in this or not the best thing to do is pray and thank god for all the things thats going on,good and even the bad,then try to gather why all this is happening because there is a reason for everything, so find the message in it. Thats why we thank him because he is communicating to us and trust me it could always get worse so be thankful for that.Even if you think I'm bullcrapin' you,try it anyways. I'm not a church goer but I know that prayer works and until you've done it don't knock it.
2006-07-21 08:13:55 · answer #3 · answered by blondearies123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel sometimes when things happen they happen for a reason. Step back and look at your decisions, were they wise and well thought out?If you stop thinking that everything is going badly, may be you can see it all from a different prospective. Take the events one by one, then work on them. Take the most important thing first,go a different direction with the concerns, you can find another solution if you calm down and let your mind go blank. It helps to look at the problem with fresh eyes. Things usually as bad as you think they are when you take a break, ask for help with the problems. It always helps talking them out with your mom, dad, sister, friend,,,,,,You never know they might be able to help you.
2006-07-21 08:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah actually it does seem that way. Just when everything is going well, something bad happens to almost give you a grip on reality. It sucks but you just know that something good will crop up sooner or later and you have to try and forget and move on from all the crap in your life at the moment.
2006-07-21 08:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My momma used to say things like major problems or death tend to come in threes. Maybe this is God's way of ensuring that you will appreciate what ever happens when your luck starts changing.
Just remember praise God for what he has given you right now. Health, Life, and the beautiful day he has created for you.
God doesn't give you anything you can't handle.
2006-07-21 08:12:07 · answer #6 · answered by JenKat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you are talking about although I have no clue as to why things happen like that! I call it my "What Next Phase" but like others have already said once it passes then the sun begins to shine and life is good again! Just hang on and try to be positive!
2006-07-21 08:16:21 · answer #7 · answered by Linda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things tend to come in threes. You have three bad things.....now things should be looking up.
also be careful of making an assumption that you are on the down swing, because often we can become what we think we are......loosers, incompitent etc.
When the bad times come ride it like a wave......on on tight unil you are in peaceful waters again.
Things shoud be looking up
2006-07-21 08:11:31 · answer #8 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens that way so you can get it all out of the way at once. No use dragging it out.
Keep your chin up. Sounds like you've got a lot of opportunites. Clearly, it can only get better.
2006-07-21 08:09:01 · answer #9 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have any explanation for this phenomena, but you are right, when things start to go bad, it snowballs. I know how you feel from personal experience.
2006-07-21 08:08:20 · answer #10 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋