Hello, I am a new born babe in Christ/ Jesus saved me from a life of sin about 6 months ago, glory to God! Thank you, thank you Jesus! When I was living for the Devil, I made some bad mistakes, one of which is going to haunt me for the rest of my life here on earth. You see, in my sinful years, I had a sex change operation. I used to be a man, but became a woman. The Devil keeps attacking me and telling me I am not worthy of the blood of Jesus because of what I did. He tells me it would be a sin for me to marry someone now. He gives me thoughts of suicide. What should I do? Should I marry a man or a woman? Will God change me back to a man when I get to heaven? Please, only true believers respond with biblical and loving advice. I am fighting this struggle everyday, and am afraid to tell my pastor my secret. But I think he is attracted to me, not knowing my condition and the unholy change I made. Is there hope for me? At least please pray for me. Thank you.
2006-07-21 07:57:29 · 20 answers · asked by 自由思想家 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
We will all get new bodies when we get into heaven, but we have to pay for our sins in the flesh while we are still here on earth. That is our cross in life to bear. Our sins will not be remembered in heaven if we repent of them here on earth. The sex change thing is between you and God.
2006-07-21 08:05:00 · answer #1 · answered by Carol M 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are saved! Don't worry so much! The devil bothers people like you the most (people who belonged to the devil before) because he knows how precious you are to Chist! :-D It is a difficult battle, but know that Jesus is already the victor and your savior!
As for if Christ will change you back in Heaven, I'm not sure. The bible teaches us that we will be resurrected whole, so I would think that God would resurrect you the way HE knows you should be. If you had a sex change because of some genetic anomoly which caused you to truly be a woman in a man's body, then I would think you would be resurrected as a woman like you are now. But wither way, it is in God's hands. Those kinds of worldly concerns won't matter in the New Kingdom. As for your other questions, pray to God for HIS will to be done, and leave the rest in God's hands.
2006-07-21 15:04:44 · answer #2 · answered by ziz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know not what to tell you. I'm sure God will forgive you in the other life as long as you are a true believer but your ife here in Earth should now be kept pure. Don't marry either gender because sex should only be used for procreation, and you have no way of having children (Ithink). Keep celibacy and serve God in your own special way. If you have problems with your pastor turn Catholic. I'm sure a priest will be understanding and will never look at you that way.
2006-07-21 15:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by musical902003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe in a god that punishes, and judges you for making the "free" choice that he gave you. You believe in a much lesser god. Someone has injected the parent / offspring role into your image of god. Think about it. If you were god, would you "need" anything to be a certain way? And to express "need" would be a statement of lack, which god is not lacking anything. Also, how could his love be unconditional if he would punish? Now try to figure out where those texts have been altered by man, to control man. Did you know the bible has been re-written 6 times?? My Opinion: It doesn't matter to him one way or the other what you are. He doesn't need to punish anyone because you punish yourself with guilt(a learned response). That's the only punishment. And it's self inflicted.
2006-07-21 15:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by quantum.field 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were born a man, then your soul and spirit is a man. you manipulated your flesh but when you die your body will just turn to dust and your soul and spirit lives on. you soul and spirit are already a man because it is exactly parallel to your original body. It has a heart lungs, etc. You wont need to be changed back because you are a man and you only have touched the flesh.
Everyone is worthy of the blood of Jesus. Never commit suicide because Satan just tries to bring people low, luke-warm and make them fall from God then make them kill themselves so they will go to hell forever, which is his goal to seperate man from God through sin and suicide is a sin. GOd loves you and in the bible it says come just as you are so if you want God then you can receive him through worship and of course use the blood of Jesus. Whenever the devil tries to talk to you just rebuke him in the name of Jesus and keep repeating the blood the blood the blood of Jesus.
2006-07-21 15:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by morobell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man the lord see you as you he doesnt care on what you look like your sins has been whashed away ill pray for you you need to pray every day to jesus talk to him he will lead you the right way make you choose the right way also he probaly did this so you can help someone thats going through the same thing as you you tell them how Jesus is changing your life
2006-07-21 15:03:49 · answer #6 · answered by Brandon B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question, don't honestly know. But I can say that if God made you a certain way, that's probably how he's going to want you. But I honestly can't tell you. I believe that it depends how you live your life. If in your current sex you've brought glory to God and you're happy with how you lived your life, then he might take kindly to that. But I honestly believe that as long as you're happy, and don't break any of the commandments he's not gonna really care. I mean just think how many ppl he's got to judge in one day, and it's none stop. :)
2006-07-21 15:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by Danny H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Passage 2 Corinthians 5:3:
For we will not be spirits without bodies, but we will put on new heavenly bodies.
As you see, you will not be neither a man , neither a woman...
We are all going to be divine beings...
If you believe that Jesus is your personal savior and He has the power to forgive your sins... and you ask Him sincerely to forgive you your sins will be erased...
Just don't let satan to control your mind
Pray daily and please don't commite suicide... cause if you suicide, you'll go to hell... you still have a chance to go to heaven... pray and ask forgivness
If you want to request prayers you could visit www.christiandl.com/forum, make an account and make a new topic in prayer request section, tell your problem and we will pray for you
I will pray for you
God Bless You
2006-07-21 15:10:32 · answer #8 · answered by zoze_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray earnestly, leave the whole question in God's loving hands, trust Him, and be at peace. If Jesus has saved you then your sins are gone, all of them. I would recommend celibacy while you are here on Earth.
Blessings to you!
2006-07-21 15:11:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing is that when we go to heaven, the body we have on earth won't go with us. God knows who you are inside and that's what counts. We all sin and to God there's no one sin that is greater than the other. To us assault is worse than lying, to God, sin is sin. As long as we repent and ask for forgiveness with all our heart He will forgive us despite of what we did. We're humans, and he knows that. So you're going to be just fine. As far as speaking to your Pastor, I think it's very important if you trust him and depend on his guidance to be honest with him and he will help you get through it. But be at peace.
2006-07-21 15:17:25 · answer #10 · answered by kayrrie101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋