I really need some advice. I like this guy and I thought that he liked me too, but it turns out that he likes my cousin instead of me. I really like him. I don't know what I should do. Everytime I talk to him he only talks about my cousin. Can you help me?
2006-07-21 07:52:30 · 25 answers · asked by sns_110989 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i almost have a similar prob. i dunno what to say..i'm suffereing from this too. but for sure u can't make a guy love u . so be nice and try to be just a good friend . i can tell from my experience that it's not gonna be easy at all . but it's the best thing to do . cuz at least u'r gonna get his respection and it's better than his hate .
2006-07-21 08:22:25 · answer #1 · answered by oomx555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dear it depends on what kind of person u r, if ur a mean, evil, selfish person, u can tell that guy bad things about ur cousin, it can be flaws, embarassing stories, anything that would make him not like her anymore, u can even lie, but if u r a nice, sweet person, u can see that he likes he a lot, so u should leave him alone, i know its hard, but try to get over it, and find someone who really likes u back, dont worry there is plenty of guys in the world
P.S. u should take the second advice, good luck
2006-07-21 14:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by ndine_5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl looks like he likes ya cousin so i dont think u can do much, act like u dont care no more n tell him when he ask u about cha cousin tht how should u know, then make ya self look at fine n shiat n see if he notices u bc obviously ur cousin has somthin u dont or is doin something u aint. find out what it is n do it betta
2006-07-21 14:58:17 · answer #3 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Find someone else to like. This guy is into your cousin and that can only hurt.
2006-07-21 14:55:58 · answer #4 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that
but there is nothing you can do if he doesnt like you.. you may act a certain way and he might fall for you in the rush of the moment but that wouldnt truely be you, adn sooner or later he will figure that out.. so just move on.. and by acting a certain way he does fall for you it wouldnt last cuz it would only be lust.. heat of the moment.. so move on, i'm sure you can do better anyways..
good luck!
2006-07-21 14:57:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the right thing to do here, is not to be selfish, and make way fro ur cousin, introduce them together! Let love bloom! And u'll find ur prince charming someday...
2006-07-21 15:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by David 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing much you can do now once you know his intensions. Give him up theres more fish in the sea. Onless you want to be ruthless and steal him from your cousin lol.
2006-07-21 14:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by ******* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could stand behind you and smack you in the back of the head every time you mentioned him, as aversion therapy.
There are lots of guys out there, don't get hung up on someone that is obviously not interested in you.
If you insist on trying to get his attention . . . dress deliberately trampy, low cut shirt, lacy bra, short skirt . . . get in his face and breathily tell him to shut up talking about her and to talk about you instead. That will definitely get his attention, though I doubt its what you are really looking for.
2006-07-21 14:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry honey, not much you can do. when you talk to him and he starts talking about your cousin, go into a different conversation. when he says something about her turn it around and ask him the same thing about him or something.
2006-07-21 15:00:37 · answer #9 · answered by complete_shopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUDE! tell him if he wants to find out more about your cousin, he should go talk to her!
2006-07-21 14:56:58 · answer #10 · answered by HotBarbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋